Okay so this is going back 25 years. I have buried this memory very deep and forgotten about it, but I feel like I need to speak about it (don’t want to IRL so online anonymously is perfect).
my parents owned a hotel and I was working in one of the bars in it when I was a teenager. I can’t say the EXACT age but it was definitely between 16-18.
My sister is 15 years older than me and he is the same age as her. Therefore he was between 31-33 when this happened.
BIL was there at an event and drinking heavily with his family, he wasn’t (and still isn’t a big drinker). He would have a beer or glass of wine with dinner most evenings but rarely drinks to extremes like he was this night.
Anyhow, barely seen him the whole night & it comes to the end of the night and we’re chatting - nothing unusual.
I was going through my teen/rebellious stage and had my tongue pierced.
He pulled me in really close and said to me I bet you can do some really good things with that, while sticking out his tongue & pointing to it.
I remember laughing nervously, and he kept repeating ‘so what kind of things can you do with it’
I assume he was alluding to oral sex but of course I’ll never know. AIBU to think this?
I remember feeling so uncomfortable and happy when someone called me away to help them.