I am 36, I have two children aged 5 & 3. One of whom has significant SEND (we have been told random bad luck, not hereditary). I really want another baby. I have always imagined having 3 children. I worry I won't cope as day to day things can be really hard because of the usual stresses of having young children, especially one with SEND, and I worry about what if the third child had SEND? Can I do right by my existing children if I have another baby? But the longing won't go away. And my long term vision for our family includes another person. Help me! WWYD? Please share your experiences of deciding to have more children (or not). Thank you.