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Would you find this odd?

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Isthisweirdornot · 06/01/2023 23:45

Saw on DH’s phone (he doesn’t know this yet) that he searched “cheating” on a porn site. Watching porn doesn’t bother me, however this search is very… niche, no? And a bit strange? To specifically watch porn with the tag “cheating”.

I don’t know. It’s weirded me out but I don’t know if I’m just being stupid. What would you think/do if you saw your OH had done this? I’m conflicted

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Lindtcat · 06/01/2023 23:47

This would bother me big time and imply he's fantasising about cheating. If he hasn't cheated already and trying to relive that.

Housefullofcatsandkids · 06/01/2023 23:55

I wouldn't be particularly worried/upset. Quite often the things we like watching in porn are not things we actually want to try in real life, we enjoy watching things we know are taboo. Maybe he is actually turned on at the idea of walking in and finding a partner is cheating and then joining in/watching rather than the man doing the cheating. Either way it doesn't mean it's something he wants to re-enact. For example I know many people who watch lesbian porn or BDSM porn but have no interest in exploring these outside of porn. If it's going to play on your mind you could always ask him about it.

Jimboscott0115 · 07/01/2023 00:05

He's watching cuckold/ swinger wife type porn, this is a common term used in descriptions of those types of videos that's all. Search yourself and see how many results come up. Nothing to worry about.

JudgeRudy · 07/01/2023 05:01

I'd say it's more likely he's fantasising about you cheating....and he either walks in on you or spies on you. I might have fantasies about aliens abducting me. I've no plan or wish for that to happen!

girlmom21 · 07/01/2023 05:04

The whole point of porn is the taboo/fantasy aspect, isn't it?

I wouldn't be worried.

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