Regular user, NC for this.
I have been a member of ebay for about 8 years and have sold a few things, (maybe 40-50,) but 90% of the time I am the buyer. Over the past year and a quarter, I have purchased a number of things. (maybe 35 or so,) and have put positive feedback for 29 of them. However, in this same timeframe, I have put a negative feedback for a seller 3 times, and I have put neutral feedback for a seller 3 times. (6 different sellers.) My feedback reflected the experience, and was authentic and genuine.
I put all the negative/neutral feedback because I did not receive the item, and in addition the seller was rude and unhelpful and pretty useless and obnoxious, and didn't help or assist me in any way. Each time I raised a dispute with ebay, I got a refund from ebay! (NOT the seller.) And they were all justified negatives and neutrals IMO.
EVERY. Single. One. of my negative or neutral feedback has been deleted. I can only surmise that the seller has thrown their toys out of the pram and demanded it was removed. I got a refund with each case, but ONLY after I raised a dispute. And EBAY gave it, not the seller!
I didn't threaten the seller with a negative if they didn't give me a refund, I didn't libel them on the feedback, and I didn't say anything rude or personal. There's NO reason for ebay to delete my feedback.
Two sellers in the past 4 months have ignored my queries about when my item will be sent, and my pleas to please chase the delivery company when it's gone past the delivery deadline. And when I raised a dispute (after it passed the deadline for the delivery date,) they emailed me demanding that I close the dispute or they won't help me. I didn't, obviously. And THAT (IMO) is well out of order.. demanding I close the case!
I got a refund each time - which I deserved as the item never came, but every one of the 3 negative and 3 neutral feedback were deleted - within a couple of hours! They can't possibly be demanding removal of the feedback just because I got a refund. It wasn't even the seller who gave it, it was ebay!
AIBU to think this removal of the negative and neutral feedback makes an utter mockery of the whole feedback system? I can't trust any sellers fully anymore, and can't believe their feedback percentage. It may say 98.3% positive, but in reality it's probably more like 80-85%. If that.
Sellers can't give negative feedback to buyers anymore, but buyers can give it to sellers. HOWEVER, it seems if they whinge and spit their dummy out, ebay removes the negative or neutral feedback. No. Matter. What!
I preferred it when sellers COULD give buyers negatives or neutrals, and the buyers negative and neutral feedback didn't get wiped off within a few hours.
I am so pissed off right now, after a very well justified neutral feedback I put earlier today, with accurate and honest comments about the seller, got deleted within 3 hours. I am 100% not going to EVER put any feedback on ebay at all now. They can fuck right off. On the occasions that I have forgotten to do it, ebay email me and say 'feedback is a VERY important part of ebay, please give the seller your feedback.' And yet unless it's positive, they fucking delete it!
As I say 'AIBU to never EVER put any feedback again, ever, not even positive?' And AIBU to think ebay deleting negative and neutral feedback (because the seller is clearly stamping their feet and spitting their dummy out,) that the feedback percentages are a load of shit? If they're going to delete anything that isn't positive, then fuck 'em! I am not going to complain to ebay by the way, they won't do anything about it!
ALSO, look on any forum on the boards about ebay and their feedback, and there are 100s of posts by people complaining that their negative or neutral feedback has been removed. Makes me wonder why there is still a BIT of it actually. The sellers must get about three quarters removed, and leave a bit, so it looks 'authentic.' 