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To worry about going out tonight?

33 replies

girlfriend44 · 31/12/2022 10:48

Usually stay in NYE but tonight an opportunity arose to go to pub with others so I thought that would be nice for a change and was all set to go.

Then on the news they were saying about Covid and flu etc. The pub is bound to be busy I would have thought so now I'm worried about going and mixing with everyone and going down ill.
Can't decide now whether to go or not. I know I'd regret it if I got ill. Touch wood not have Covid yet or flu. On the other hand I might miss out on some enjoyment.

WWYD. Anyone else thinking the same? It was seeing the news that has made me think?
Help.

OP posts:
Mariposa26 · 31/12/2022 11:42

Would you have worried in the same way during a bad flu year pre-2020? Bugs and viruses have always been around, and unless you voluntarily lock yourself down you could catch something anywhere. Enjoy your life, we have missed out on enough.

ClangingBell · 31/12/2022 11:50

Get yourself some First Defence spray and use it before and after you go?

roarfeckingroarr · 31/12/2022 12:01

I would never miss a night out because of Covid / flu on the news. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go.

jadedspark · 31/12/2022 14:30

Well it's not going to go away? Unless you're never going to visit crowded places during the winter for the rest of your life (which I think is nuts) then you should go.

YukoandHiro · 31/12/2022 18:01

I would go, lots of pubs are ventilating well now. Life has to go on. I wouldn't see my elderly parents within the next 5-7 days after though.

DoubleShotEspresso · 31/12/2022 18:11

Normally my response to this would be go out and enjoy!

But considering the number of our close friends & family who have been seriously unwell with covid or this horrendous flu bug and his dreadfully it's knocked them all out, I'd say avoid a packed pub this evening, sorry OP. I think if you have any little ones or vulnerable family members it would be wiser to be at home.

girlfriend44 · 01/01/2023 12:54

Thanks for input.

I did go out and was glad I did. Pub wasn't too crowded actually.

Made a change from being on on NYE.

OP posts:
harrassedmumto3 · 01/01/2023 13:04

You can't live your life like that. Have some fun!

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