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Would you lend this money if you were receiving this back?

112 replies

Boxingdaytoday · 26/12/2022 13:59

Would you lend someone around a thousand, if they were able to pay it back in 3 months at just over £300 per month?

OP posts:
Someo · 26/12/2022 13:59

Depends who it was.

Fairyliz · 26/12/2022 14:00

I think we need more info.
Who are they, what’s it for and are they generally good with money?

StreamingCervix · 26/12/2022 14:00

I don’t think it’s a good idea to loan anyone any money with the expectation of it coming back tbh.

who is this person to you? Would you gift them £1,000?

Bananarama21 · 26/12/2022 14:01

They can't work out basic maths 300 x 3 is only 900 pounds

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 26/12/2022 14:02

No, I wouldn't lend anyone money under any circumstances.

Bonjovispyjamas · 26/12/2022 14:03

No, I never lend or borrow money no matter what the circumstances. Often ends in tears.

ChorltonWheelie · 26/12/2022 14:03

Yes I would and indeed have

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 26/12/2022 14:03

Bananarama21 · 26/12/2022 14:01

They can't work out basic maths 300 x 3 is only 900 pounds

OP said 'just over' 300 so I presume it will be something like 333 x2 and 334 X 1.

Comefromaway · 26/12/2022 14:03

It would depend on

a. Who it was
b. What they wanted it for
c. Whether I could afford it.

I recently offered to lend a young person £600 so they didn’t have to take out finance on something. They didn’t accept the offer but I offered because it’s someone my family care about and I could afford to lose that sum.

There are others who I wouldn’t offer to lend even £50 to.

FLOWER1982 · 26/12/2022 14:04

Why can’t they wait 3 months?

PissedAgain · 26/12/2022 14:05

Only if you can afford and be happy to never receive it back. Good intentions and all that

MichelleScarn · 26/12/2022 14:06

Probably not as couldn't afford to lose the £1000

ThreeblackCats · 26/12/2022 14:06

Never loan more than you can afford to lose.

nancydroo · 26/12/2022 14:06

No. And if you do get it in writing and a contingency plan of they cannot pay

notacooldad · 26/12/2022 14:07

Depends who it is and why.
I lent my son £9,500 in September with the expectation that I would have it back by the 15th December. He returned it in full on 5th December with a bunch of flowers as a thank you.

I have lent to him before sporadically over the years and he always pays back.

GoT1904 · 26/12/2022 14:07

I would if I trust they'd pay me back and I could afford it. You could always write a contract with them.

Dotjones · 26/12/2022 14:08

Depends whether I could afford to lend it, why they needed it, who they were and how likely I thought it was I'd get it back.

Boxingdaytoday · 26/12/2022 14:18

It’s me who would like to lend it and i’m asking my parents, who I’ve leant money off once in 45 years

OP posts:
murasaki · 26/12/2022 14:19

Do you mean you want to borrow from your parents?

murasaki · 26/12/2022 14:19

If so, and you do have a payment schedule, if I were your parent and had it available I would lend it.

NoSquirrels · 26/12/2022 14:20

You mean you want to borrow £1,000 off your parents? You’re asking your parents to lend you £1,000, repaid over 3 months.

If they have lent to you in the past and you have repaid on time, presumably they’ll do it again if they can afford £1,000.

NEmama · 26/12/2022 14:20

@Boxingdaytoday you want to borrow it from your parents. What is it for ?

NoSquirrels · 26/12/2022 14:21

NEmama · 26/12/2022 14:20

@Boxingdaytoday you want to borrow it from your parents. What is it for ?

This is also a good question.
As is, when did they last lend you money?

AngelontopoftheTree · 26/12/2022 14:24

Can you save 300+ for 3 months and pay for whatever it is yourself?

Hopeyoursproutsarealreadyon · 26/12/2022 14:25

In our family we have unspoken rules that lending money /car is more than acceptable.. It depends on your personal boundaries I guess. No way would I see my dc, adult or not, in a position they needed money.
And I am most certainly not well off.
Maybe they need a reality check about how people really can't manage at times. They aren't kind if they won't help op.

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