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Not AIBU but need advice please

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Jaybird43 · 25/12/2022 20:19

Hi all, sorry to post here but slow traffic on Child’s health and I’ve got myself into a right state as I have bad health anxiety.

My DD came up to me a moment ago and said a lump behind her ear was hurting. This is the first time she has mentioned a lump or any pain. She does have a real stinker of a cold, which she has had for a couple weeks now (super snotty nose, she had a couple of headaches when it started, she did have a cough etc). I’ve had a look and I can definitely see two lumps behind her ear; the bigger one feels boney but the smaller one feels a bit squishy - about the size of a pea. The bigger one is on top and the smaller underneath (see pic)

Would you think these are enlarged lymph nodes caused by the bad cold? My mind always jumps to worse case scenario. I have googled and we do have lymph nodes behind our ears and I know kids are more reactive to bugs and such, so their lymph nodes can react more than an adults.

What would you think? Lymph nodes or something else? If I press them she says they hurt.

thanks

Not AIBU but need advice please
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Havanawinter · 25/12/2022 20:22

Oh bless her. Nurse here, looks like a lymph node to me. Of course if you’re worried get her seen, but it’s not something I’d be rushing to do tonight personally.

YouCantBeSadHoldingACupcake · 25/12/2022 20:24

Looks like a lymph node, ds had one on his neck that took a few years to go down. Keep an eye on them but don't worry to much.

October2020 · 25/12/2022 20:26

Sure they're lymph nodes. Especially as she's poorly, so logically enlarged lymph nodes make sense, I wouldn't be worrying.

Thehop · 25/12/2022 20:27

Looks v lymph node like. I wouldn't say needs A&E today but would let Gp have a look when open

Jaybird43 · 25/12/2022 20:29

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. My poor DD has had a wretched cold for a couple of weeks (mine lasted around the same time) but fine in herself. My heart stopped at dinner when she said she had this lump (!) but I’ve googled and it does look like a lymph node (certainly feels like it, small and rubbery) - I’m guessing the top one is bone but just swelling from the bottom node? Kids like to keep me on my feet!

thank you everyone - and a merry Christmas xx

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