CrossFit relationships

[FlatWhite2]

I’m prepared for a tonne of crazy messages here but.. my husband goes to CrossFit religiously. He sometimes tells me little stories about the people in his CrossFit class… some are women. We had a long car journey the other day and he told me stories about two girls in his class. Just mundane stories.. actually a little strange he was telling me as the stories were dull. Anyway, I’ve had a little snoop and the girls are both very attractive. Is it completely unreasonable that I’m jealous and feeling strange about him talking about them? Obviously yes is the answer haha

He's no doubt enjoying the view. If you trust him, that's great, no need to worry... if you don't, then why are you with him anyway?

All cross fitters I know get completely obsessed with it (to the point that they’ve all gotten seriously injured due to doing it too often) - they become very close to other members but I’ve only ever seen purely platonic relationships.

Has your DH ever talked about other girl mates in this way? I’m forever telling my DH about boring stories about colleagues but then I am a girl so that could be why!

DH and I both go to CrossFit (not at the same time due to kids!) and we definitely talk about people we're in class with and made good friendships but everything very much platonic. Even the younger single members don't end up messing about with each other as everyone loves the community and wouldn't risk feeling awkward or wanting to leave if it didn't work out.

I think if he is also telling you little stories about the other class members and doesn't keep mentioning these 2, then it's less likely to be an issue.