Am I stingy with my Christmas gifts?aibu?

[singlepringlee]

My friend of 16 years has 2 kids (I have none yet )
Every Christmas ,birthday I get them something
This year money isn't as available as it once was but I got them something
I got them pjs from M&S each which were £12 a pair (she said they didn't need toys ) and a selection box each.
For my friend I got her a £20 gift card for our local shopping centre and a box of chocs
And it's her sons birthday Xmas day so I got him a birthday card and put £10 in

Anyway I gave her them and she said
"Eeeee not as much as usual from you Lucy"
And laughed
Now I don't know if she was joking or being serious
Now I'm worried I was stingy
Was I ?

No you were not.

She's being a cheeky cow. Don't bother next year. Tell her you're not doing gifts from now on.
Ungrateful bitch (her, obvs)

She is rude

That's a lovely gift and she was bit rude really. I'd be chuffed with a generous gift like this.

Seriously! What a cheeky bitch. You should have said something like actually I've not got a lot of spare cash just now but maybe u were in shock. I'd be fuming if I were u and actually quite hurt. Even if it was meant as a joke, which I don't think it could have been. Think she may have said it jokingly but getting her point across.

You just handed over almost £60 of gifts, she's being very mean.

If I opened gifts from someone and thought they spent less than they usually do, I'd imagine they were saving up/cutting back or simply unable to afford more this year. I would as any normal person would thank you for the gifts and say nothing!

I feel sad that you’re second guessing yourself. You are quite obviously a generous and thoughtful friend unlike your greedy, cheeky fucker friend.

Is she like this on other ways?

She was very rude and you should tell her how much she upset you.

She’d get nowt from me next year.

Your mate is well rude.

She's horrible! She has no social skills and is very grabby.

Surely she said that in jest/sarcastically? No one would be that rude to a friend.

That's so rude. Even if she was 'joking' it's still terrible.

I've bought my friends' children books! 😬

And I haven't spent more than £8 on any of my family except my mum, sister and brother in law. Even theirs only add up to about £40 each. I have money but that's how it's always been in my family - don't see the point in big gifts.

What a cheeeekkkkyyy cow!!! No, you were not stingy in the slightest.

She is incredibly rude.

Find a new friend…

What did she get you?