I’m a professional musican (NC). I don’t play violin but another orchestral instrument.
Yes and no.
First of all, it depends on what exactly your DS wants to / will end up doing. You can charge £40+ an hour for private tutoring. Weddings and other background music events easily pay £300 for an afternoon, and it’s ‘easy’ work. But, none of this are regular, steady sources of income, especially not in the UK. Keep reading for details.
Classical music is incredibly competitive. You have to be really good to get into a conservatoire. You have to be really amazing to graduate with top marks. You have to be exceptional to then make it to the top of your instrument.
If you aspire to be in a professional orchestra, you need to be one of the best in your generation, and make contacts from day one of your degree. If you want to be a soloist and make a living from it, you need to be the best in the world.
In the UK, only the BBC orchestras are salaried (and maybe Covent Garden, they’ve undergone some changes recently). The rest (LSO, LPO, Royal Philharmonic etc) only pay you when you work. Which might be every night for a month, then nothing for two. You’re technically a member of those ensembles but have no salary.
I do earn a decent living and I only graduated a couple of years ago. How do I make a decent living? I had to move abroad. The sad truth is, in the UK it is almost impossible to earn a decent living, play at the level you are/aspire to be at, and have a life, and a half-decent one at that.
My friends in England are doing a mixture of teaching, performing for various corporate events and weddings, occasional gigs with semi-professional orchestras, the odd LPO/Opera North sub-in. These are extremely talented people who should be working as professionals, full-time. They aren’t, because there is not enough work, and what they do get offered, is often not paid enough.
It is gruelling, they have almost no free time and are constantly underpaid. One friend just worked two full months at a Christmas show for less than £8 an hour. It’s actually depressing. He’s one of the best in his field in the country.
My colleagues and friends in the UK are working constantly. Since Brexit, conditions have become worse. Covid made it all a lot worse too. Many are doing side jobs on the side. Full-time orchestral positions are rare. When they come up, hundreds of applicants sign up - from all over the world. The chances of getting the job are minuscule.
I moved to Germany. This country has 165 full-time professional orchestras, all state-funded and independently-run. This is before we count choirs, theatres, touring companies, musicals, jazz and ballet companies etc. Germany is a country which values and invests in the arts.
I am still in training and earning around €25-30k a year already. Once I get a full time position, this will increase to anything between 45 and 80-90k a year, before extra work on the side (teaching and solo/chamber performing). I am valued, my job is valued in the society and I have time for an actual life too, occasionally. Cost of living is lower, working conditions are so much better, and regulated by law.
So to sum up - yes, music pays well. No, not in the UK, unless you’re willing to work at a different level than your own and eg spend 60 hours a week teaching primary school aged kids, when you’re actually good enough to be playing with the Concertgebouw in Amsterdam or in the ranks of the Opéra de Paris. (Nothing wrong with this, I’m just pointing out the frustrations of many musicians who are unable to make ends meet by doing what they’re good at and what they trained for - because of a lack of opportunities, even paid opportunities at that).
Is your son great? Is your son willing to move at some point in his life? Or would your son be happy doing a music degree and then working in whatever capacity he finds that allows him to pay the bills? Might not be as performing violinist, mind you.
’Professional classical musician’ sounds glamorous but it rarely is. Not in the UK at the current moment, that’s for sure.