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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if you have an idea you believe would significantly improve life in the UK?

508 replies

ConfusedmumUC · 17/12/2022 18:44

I’ll go first.

I can’t help but think making someone’s rent payments eligible to prove you can pay a mortgage would go a long way to housing security for so many people. And limiting the amount of properties owned by one landlord / amount a landlord can charge in rent, would also go a long way. I can’t help but think profiteering massively off of a basic need and right such as housing is really not ok.

Im sure there’s a reason why my idea wouldn’t work, feel free to put me right 😂

What’s your idea?

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Jaxhog · 17/12/2022 20:08

ConfusedmumUC · 17/12/2022 19:01

This is a brilliant one, absolutely agree!

Especially if they included basic economics.

generalh · 17/12/2022 20:08

Vote the Tories out.

WrongLife · 17/12/2022 20:08

DrLecter · 17/12/2022 20:05

Very obvious on here who are the ones who have received / are expecting inheritances, and see them as an entitlement, and the ones who know that all they will ever have is what they can make for themselves.

I have no inheritance to come. My dad is long dead, and my mum has nothing to leave. I still don't think that at 44, if my husband was killed in a car crash tomorrow, I should be forced to sell my house and scrabble around for whatever I can afford with three children to house.

ClydeFrog · 17/12/2022 20:09

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Vimto1 · 17/12/2022 20:09

whereaw · 17/12/2022 20:03

@Vimto1 have you bought any Christmas presents for your kids? If so, can you please give at least half to mine? I don't see why just your kids should get them.

I give to charity regularly, I pay my taxes and if I have any savings/assets when I die, I'd be very happy to pay them into a system that supported all kids not just mine

Simonjt · 17/12/2022 20:09

Vimto1 · 17/12/2022 20:07

Do you really think that homelessness is inevitable if you don't get your parents' wealth when they pass?

How do the millions of people whose parents didn't own houses not end up homeless?

Oh, sorry I forgot that children earn enough money to buy their parents homes, silly me thinking children were in fulltime education, rather than well paying jobs. Out of curiosity, how much was the home you purchased as a child?

ILoveeCakes · 17/12/2022 20:09

It isn't the fault of the people getting inheritances that their parents worked hard. Why should everything be bled off and paid out in benefits?

Instead of having a go at families who are thinking ahead and bettering themselves, why not ask why you're not doing that for your kids. Why not ask your parents why they didn't do that for you.

But it's so much easier to dish it outwards, isn't it? Rather than to look inwards.

Comedycook · 17/12/2022 20:10

How do the millions of people whose parents didn't own houses not end up homeless?

Most people are living their own independent lives with their own families and homes by the time both their parents are dead. I don't know what I would have done without my inheritance in terms of housing. I had just started working and wasn't earning much and we lived in London. I probably couldn't have even afforded to rent a room.

PlayIt · 17/12/2022 20:10

ILoveeCakes · 17/12/2022 20:04

People thinking teachers would be capable of teaching "life skills".

They went to school, uni then back to school.

Totally agree with this.

I also think so many teachers lack the basic of life skills; obviously only anecdotal, but the ones I know make poor decisions in relation to drinking (high alcohol dependency) lifestyle, money management, mental health / well being awareness within themselves, boundaries (working late, poor time management, saying no - appreciate the pressures but it’s coupled with those teachers who’ll happily gossip before and after work in the staff room, but complain they’re working late every night) and relationships (affairs are rife in education!)

DrLecter · 17/12/2022 20:11

There would be ways to ensure that adults who co-own houses earned through their own income do not lose their homes, without maintaining a status quo in which those whose parents are rich have nothing to worry about, while the other half - whatever their individual merit - never approximate the comfort of the inheriting class.

The issue is with unearned, inter-generational inequality. Not spouses.

MrLahey · 17/12/2022 20:11

Suzi888 · 17/12/2022 19:23

This^
Punish cruelty to children and animals -
severely. I don’t want them to go to prison.

Totally agree, would add old people into that.

Annabel073 · 17/12/2022 20:11

beezlebubnicky · 17/12/2022 19:08

A non Tory government.

Better funding for Early Years settings and I'd bring SureStart back. Heavily subsidised childcare.

And fewer people in prison - better education and rehabilitation programmes for non-violent criminals.
For the vast majority, prison does not work and actually entrenches issues like drug addiction and gang involvement. A lot of prisoners are also functionally illiterate and prison education budgets have been cut badly.

Several Scandinavian countries do the above, and have very low rates of recidivism compared to the UK. Funding early years also helps keep people out of prison in later life, statistically speaking.

Some Scandinavian countries have extremely serious drug problems and very low rates of access to treatment so we need to be very cautious about using these as a model.

Happyher · 17/12/2022 20:11

Bring back evening classes in schools for adults.

whereaw · 17/12/2022 20:12

Yes @ILoveeCakes my grandparents left a small inheritance for my dad after a life of hard work and scrimping and saving, very much low earners but who worked hard all their life, paid all their care bills in old age and never took a penny from the state. It was so important to my gran especially to know she had something to leave behind to her children.

Vimto1 · 17/12/2022 20:12

ILoveeCakes · 17/12/2022 20:09

It isn't the fault of the people getting inheritances that their parents worked hard. Why should everything be bled off and paid out in benefits?

Instead of having a go at families who are thinking ahead and bettering themselves, why not ask why you're not doing that for your kids. Why not ask your parents why they didn't do that for you.

But it's so much easier to dish it outwards, isn't it? Rather than to look inwards.

Why should we blame or give a leg up to anyone based on the actions of their parents?

Longdarkcloud · 17/12/2022 20:12

Reverse Brexit.
Fund the NHS with money taxed from the super rich
Free childcare for workers
Renationalise all essential services — electricity, gas, water and public transport
Fund public houses schemes on deferred payment ie a proportion of rent paid on time goes towards purchase of house over 33 year term. Money received to be ploughed back into more housing.

underneaththeash · 17/12/2022 20:12

explore the tax history of anyone calling themselves a ‘wealth manager’ and their clients.
similarly anyone (make or female who was claiming they’re self employed when there is a CMS claim.
increase VAT payments on multinational
businesses (like Amazon) who don’t pay significant business taxes.
Reduce the amount of strike days that anyone can take to 3/year.

ConfusedmumUC · 17/12/2022 20:12

Whatevergetsyouthroughthenight · 17/12/2022 19:52

Is that you, Rishi?

😂 ah you got me! I’m hoping to implement some of these ideas before I retire on £115k a month for life 👀

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WrongLife · 17/12/2022 20:13

DrLecter · 17/12/2022 20:11

There would be ways to ensure that adults who co-own houses earned through their own income do not lose their homes, without maintaining a status quo in which those whose parents are rich have nothing to worry about, while the other half - whatever their individual merit - never approximate the comfort of the inheriting class.

The issue is with unearned, inter-generational inequality. Not spouses.

So... not 100% inheritance tax?

DdraigGoch · 17/12/2022 20:14

Florenz · 17/12/2022 20:04

Bullet train travels at 200mph. London-Glasgow is just over 400 miles.

The British invented the train so we should have the fastest and best trains in the world.

Are you familiar with the difference between maximum speed and average speed? HS2 is designed for 225mph, with passive provision made for later upgrades to 250mph as technology allows.

NameChangeLifeChange · 17/12/2022 20:14

Vimto1 · 17/12/2022 19:54

And are your kids more deserving of a stable home than kids whose parents don't own a house?

Of course not but surely most people work hard to provide for their family. If I knew all of that would be taken by the government I wouldn’t consider living in the UK. We are fortunate to own a house but also it’s due to hard work, sacrifice and prioritising creating a safe environment for my children.

LaurelGrove · 17/12/2022 20:14

Electoral and tax reform.
Changing the way our leaders are elected and the way our income is raised allows progressive ideas that have popular support to be put forward and implemented. I agree with a lot on this thread but first we have to change the system.

Jaxhog · 17/12/2022 20:15

WrongLife · 17/12/2022 19:55

So you think I should lose my home because my husband dies? Seems a bit of an odd thing to want to happen.

It's just plain wrong. Why should those of us who sacrificed other things to secure our futures lose our houses? We don't all have fat inheritances!

Vimto1 · 17/12/2022 20:15

Simonjt · 17/12/2022 20:09

Oh, sorry I forgot that children earn enough money to buy their parents homes, silly me thinking children were in fulltime education, rather than well paying jobs. Out of curiosity, how much was the home you purchased as a child?

🙄

I'll say it again, a 100% inheritance tax would be able to fund a better welfare and social care where robust support, accommodation and education could be provided to ALL children in the case of a parental death, regardless of whether they were lucky enough to be born to a set of parents that had savings or not.

Dente · 17/12/2022 20:16

Getting rid of the SNP!

But in all honest I think this country has become way to socialist. Where is the financial incentive to work ? We have become so afraid of offending others it’s making hard to do anything.