I saw, acknowledged & ignored all the red flags...

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And he dumped me. In a really crap way too.

Can't reveal them all (v outing) but f* me what a future faker.

If a man has a string of short-term exes (especially p*** off ones) at nearly 40 there's probably a reason!

What do you think are legitimate red flags early on in dating?

Big red flags for me
1.They fall for you quickly (like I love you or talking about your future together on the second date). As this means they probably fall in and out of love quickly.

1. Cocky attitude
2. Talking about sex very early on (i.e. sexting)