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To think that the Cambridge Dictionary doesn’t know what a woman is?

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HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 14/12/2022 07:46

Cambridge Dictionary changes definition of woman

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/d0d69d58-7b0c-11ed-bcd8-855e06175970?shareToken=145378cb575d0ff12d97278f7355f1c8

This has fucked me right off this morning.

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minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:25

OneTC · 14/12/2022 14:24

Why not a trans cat? An understood term that already exists and means what you're trying to describe. cis just means standard right? So if I ask for cat and get a "cat" I'd still need to specify that actually I want a proper one. It just seems a bit mealy mouthed and confusing.

If there's still the need for clarification then it's not really any form of equal standing at all is it?

Take it up with the pet shop owners in our fictional universe.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/12/2022 14:25

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:21

Anyone who has been through surgery to change their appearance, or who feels more female / male etc. still doesn't change that basic biological fact, so they still remain a man or woman as they were born.

The dictionary doesn't seem to challenge that, which is part of the issue. At what point are adult human males considered the same as adult human females? Are they both men and women simultaneously?

Woman(def2) is a subset of man(def1) but is neither equal to woman(def1) nor a subset of it.
It really is going to be easier to communicate in code soon.

panko · 14/12/2022 14:25

I thought I was a woman but I don't "identify" as one or do I. Seriously I just go about my day. Maybe I'm lucky not to have to think about it.

minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:26

ReneBumsWombats · 14/12/2022 14:24

Even if cats don't have a self identity (and what is a female identity?), we can still identify and define them as cats and not dogs, sharks or USB ports. That's the point.

If no person had a gender identity and no person ever talked about gender identity then we wouldn't have genders or transition. But people do, so we do.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:27

cis just means standard right?

Yep. It's a meaningless in-group term, unless you subscribe to gender identity ideology.

babyjellyfish · 14/12/2022 14:27

minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:26

If no person had a gender identity and no person ever talked about gender identity then we wouldn't have genders or transition. But people do, so we do.

So what does a trans woman's gender identity have to do with women?

What does it have to do with anyone else except themselves?

How is it different to having a personality?

babyjellyfish · 14/12/2022 14:28

panko · 14/12/2022 14:25

I thought I was a woman but I don't "identify" as one or do I. Seriously I just go about my day. Maybe I'm lucky not to have to think about it.

Identifying as something and actually being that thing appear to be mutually exclusive IME.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:29

we can still identify and define them as cats and not dogs, sharks or USB ports. That's the point.

Exactly. This poster doesn't seem to want to engage with that, or any form of thought experiment which exposes the absurdity of believing that words can mean two conflicting things and that that isn't a problem.

OMG12 · 14/12/2022 14:29

What’s their definition of bollocks? Does it say “see woman”

ErrolTheDragon · 14/12/2022 14:30

a) right, no matter how many times you showed me a photo of a shark and told me it was a kitten, I would not start believing it was a kitten. That's because we never use the word kitten to refer to a shark, in our universe.

I bet there are people who use the word shark to refer to a kitten though, when it's at the bitey stage.

Do you really believe things on that basis?
If I see a picture of a male and you tell me it's a woman, I won't believe it's of a woman because it isn't.

panko · 14/12/2022 14:30

babyjellyfish · 14/12/2022 14:28

Identifying as something and actually being that thing appear to be mutually exclusive IME.

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/12/2022 14:30

@minimarshmallowsmore

If different people in society use the same word in contradictory ways. I can't think of any examples off the top of my head

An example is "Woman", being used to mean both "a person who may have any personality but must have a female body" and "a person who need not have a female body but must have a specific personality".

This thread is in fact about exactly that. Perhaps you skim read a little over lightly?

Interestingly, "transphobia" is commonly understood by most people to mean "hatred or prejudice of a person because they choose to live as if they were the opposite sex", but there are also significant numbers of people who use it to mean "any disagreement with or limitations placed on the belief that humans have an innate gender identity that is more significant than and must always legally and socially supercede physical sex" and also significant numbers of people who understand it to mean "a bad faith term used to discredit anyone who does not believe that humans have an innate gender identity that is more significant than and must always legally and socially supercede physical sex by wrongly attributing their position to hate and prejudice".

I assume you would support a dictionary including all three definitions all three are currently being used and understood by many people?

ReneBumsWombats · 14/12/2022 14:30

minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:24

a) right, no matter how many times you showed me a photo of a shark and told me it was a kitten, I would not start believing it was a kitten. That's because we never use the word kitten to refer to a shark, in our universe. Are you telling me the shark in the picture self-identifies as a kitten?
b) they don't have complex thoughts. If cats do have complex thoughts in fact, and a self identity, they can't express that to us so we can't make assumptions about it and so we don't talk about the self identity of cats.
c) non-humans don't have gender identities...that doesn't follow that a person without a gender identity is not a human...

I would not start believing it was a kitten. That's because we never use the word kitten to refer to a shark, in our universe.

Hence the question: how many people would need to start doing it before you'd accept it?

no matter how many times you showed me a photo of a shark and told me it was a kitten, I would not start believing it was a kitten.

And yet we must accept that women are males if enough people say so?

Are you telling me the shark in the picture self-identifies as a kitten?

Why can't it? What's a kitten identity? If it's anything like a female identity, it's not confined to kittens just as female identity isn't confined to females, begging the question of what it means at all. So why not?

And if it did, would you accept it as a kitten?

they don't have complex thoughts.

So what? Does your understanding of it being a shark rest upon what's going on in its head?

non-humans don't have gender identities

Yet we can still sex them. I don't have a gender identity. Am I not human?

babyjellyfish · 14/12/2022 14:31

panko · 14/12/2022 14:30

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

The problem is that anyone who actually is a woman is not a woman according to that definition.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:31

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

Because then what does "woman" actually refer to?

OneTC · 14/12/2022 14:32

minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:25

Take it up with the pet shop owners in our fictional universe.

The fictional owner of the fictional shop is you and you're trying to fob me off with a fictional dog and I'm bloody allergic them.

nameymcnamechangling · 14/12/2022 14:33

How is this not an elaborate, drawn out joke! I know language grows and changes but this is bonkers! Yes, the dictionary shows word usage but should only provide the factual definition. Where does it stop? Biological women being referred to as cis-women even though we already have a suitable and established word, but trans women are women? I am so angry as a woman and mother of a young daughter!

I fully support personal identity, if a person wants to be transgender, transable, transracial or whatever, then we have created words for these optional identities and I will happily refer to them as such but I will not call a trans woman a woman, a non-disabled person a wheel chair user, or a white person black. Every time we accept this type of usage we disrespect the experience, culture and otherness of the non-trans groups.

I'm still perplexed why other trans identities are not being given the same power as gender, (disabled/race still have the same dictionary definition). I suspect it is because as a society we accept that the notion of being transabled or transracial is ridiculous and disrespectful...

ErrolTheDragon · 14/12/2022 14:33

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

The problem is living in the real world with 2 dimorphic, non interchangeable sexes.

TheKeatingFive · 14/12/2022 14:34

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

What about the swathes of women who don't 'identify as women'. It's just their biological reality.

So they aren't women but men who 'identify as' are? Sounds confusing

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:34

An example is "Woman", being used to mean both "a person who may have any personality but must have a female body" and "a person who need not have a female body but must have a specific personality".

Yes, and the key here is, what is the specific personality/quality they claim unites women? No one either can or wants to answer.

babyjellyfish · 14/12/2022 14:35

minimarshmallowsmore · 14/12/2022 14:24

a) right, no matter how many times you showed me a photo of a shark and told me it was a kitten, I would not start believing it was a kitten. That's because we never use the word kitten to refer to a shark, in our universe. Are you telling me the shark in the picture self-identifies as a kitten?
b) they don't have complex thoughts. If cats do have complex thoughts in fact, and a self identity, they can't express that to us so we can't make assumptions about it and so we don't talk about the self identity of cats.
c) non-humans don't have gender identities...that doesn't follow that a person without a gender identity is not a human...

So no matter how many times we showed you a photo of a shark and said it was a kitten, you would not under any circumstances believe it was a kitten, no matter how many people started saying it was a kitten and using the word "kitten" to describe sharks? Because it would still be a shark and not a kitten?

I mean, that's exactly the same reason why I will never believe that a trans woman is a woman, no matter how many times people say it.

panko · 14/12/2022 14:35

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:31

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

Because then what does "woman" actually refer to?

I don't even know anymore!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/12/2022 14:36

Surely the dictionary can help? Oh.

Fimofriend · 14/12/2022 14:36

They think they are being politically correct but they are eroding women's rights.

panko · 14/12/2022 14:36

TheKeatingFive · 14/12/2022 14:34

So anyone who identifys as a woman is a woman. Then what's the problem?

What about the swathes of women who don't 'identify as women'. It's just their biological reality.

So they aren't women but men who 'identify as' are? Sounds confusing

Yeah I feel like that meme where someone is trying to solve a complex equation. I'm just going to keep my mouth shut and hope one day I'll understand what's going on.