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To think that the Cambridge Dictionary doesn’t know what a woman is?

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HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 14/12/2022 07:46

Cambridge Dictionary changes definition of woman

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/d0d69d58-7b0c-11ed-bcd8-855e06175970?shareToken=145378cb575d0ff12d97278f7355f1c8

This has fucked me right off this morning.

OP posts:
Crackof · 15/12/2022 07:58

AlisonDonut · 14/12/2022 08:55

That's not true is it?

A dictionary definies a definition. If a definition is expanded to mean the opposite as only males can 'identify as women' then it actually means that the word and its opposite cease to be specific meanings and the word is basically redundant.

If female can also mean male, and woman can also mean man then what is the word/s that specifically define the half of the humans that are born with the biological ability to create large gametes, and what is the word/words that specifically define the half of humans that are born with the biological ability to create small gametes?

If we cannot say that certain children will grow up to be 'men' and another set of children will grow up to be 'women', then how do we explain which ones need for example, cervical smears? Or who will start to bleed from their genitals?

If a child tells a teacher they are bleeding from their genitals, will the teacher be sending them to the ER or to the medical room for sanitary protection?

If words don't mean things what's the point of a dictionary in the first place? Why even have words?

The whole point of communication is that we all understand what we mean when we say words. Women means adult human female. Not adult human male who lies.

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Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 08:08

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 05:59

They are verbs.

Woman is a noun.

Peer (a noun) nobility or equal

Ultimately you cannot say that we can't have a word in the English language that means opposite things when there are already plenty of verbs, adverbs and even a few nouns that already do that

It doesn't mean I agree with the dictionary meaning, it's just this technicality is irrelevant.

Kucingsparkles · 15/12/2022 08:09

Can I just say that I'm loving minmarshmallow's probably unintended work in educating any undecided lurkers? Grin

AlisonDonut · 15/12/2022 08:20

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 14/12/2022 23:28

We can't have a word meaning both a thing and the exact opposite of a thing at the same time.

Like for example:

Cleave: to cling to or to separate
Dust: to get rid of dust or to add it (e.g. to dust icing on a cake)
Screen: to conceal or to broadcast
Sanction: to permit or to penalise

I'm not saying woman should fall under this umbrella but from a purely dictionary based point of view this is a perfectly possible use of a word, to mean opposite things

A dust sized particle whether it is icing sugar or house dust, is indeed small and not a boulder though isn't it?

A screen is something big and flat that something is shown on or used to block something out. It isn't a round thing [for example, a boulder].

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 08:29

Heavy, I must point out that peer doesn’t quite cut it either.

Because ‘peer’ when discussing nobility came from being equal with other nobles. And wasn’t ‘peer’ in that respect from the word ‘pair’ from usage in France?

babyjellyfish · 15/12/2022 08:40

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 14/12/2022 23:28

We can't have a word meaning both a thing and the exact opposite of a thing at the same time.

Like for example:

Cleave: to cling to or to separate
Dust: to get rid of dust or to add it (e.g. to dust icing on a cake)
Screen: to conceal or to broadcast
Sanction: to permit or to penalise

I'm not saying woman should fall under this umbrella but from a purely dictionary based point of view this is a perfectly possible use of a word, to mean opposite things

But we can tell what is meant from the context.

The whole point of using the word "woman" to describe a male person with a particular identity is to create confusion.

It is designed to undermine the primary meaning of the word and redefine women as people who perform certain stereotypes, rather than people who share a biological sex, so that men can be included.

You cannot refer to a male person as a woman without effectively changing the primary meaning of the word, i.e. modifying society's common understanding of what a woman is.

That's why this should be rejected. It's not about being kind.

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 08:40

And also, peer is also a verb so is a word traditionally that had different usages coming from different roots.

Woman has been a stable word for centuries. And the current attempt to expand the usage has no roots as such. The current expanded meaning is derived from a falsehood. Surely that is not legitimate?

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 08:55

babyjellyfish · 15/12/2022 08:40

But we can tell what is meant from the context.

The whole point of using the word "woman" to describe a male person with a particular identity is to create confusion.

It is designed to undermine the primary meaning of the word and redefine women as people who perform certain stereotypes, rather than people who share a biological sex, so that men can be included.

You cannot refer to a male person as a woman without effectively changing the primary meaning of the word, i.e. modifying society's common understanding of what a woman is.

That's why this should be rejected. It's not about being kind.

At no point have I mentioned the phrase be kind.

I just pointed out that seine aaying you can't have a word that means opposites wasn't in fact true.

But given there are now posters arguing that established contronyms are in fact not contronyms then I'm not sure there's much point continuing

wincarwoo · 15/12/2022 09:00

@Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead that's not the reason

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 15/12/2022 09:02

Many words do have opposing definitions. But really, you want to include man and woman in that? You will accept changes in definitions of those 2 words that very effectively remove your ability to verbally identify males and females without confusion?

How far would you take that?

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 09:12

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 15/12/2022 09:02

Many words do have opposing definitions. But really, you want to include man and woman in that? You will accept changes in definitions of those 2 words that very effectively remove your ability to verbally identify males and females without confusion?

How far would you take that?

No I don't want to accept it, I have in fact said that in my posts.

My point was:
We can't have a word meaning both a thing and the exact opposite of a thing at the same time.

This cannot be used as a reason why not because its an established convention already in the English language. But as I now have people telling me that established contronyms 'don't cut it' I don't think some people actually get the language anyway.

TheKeatingFive · 15/12/2022 09:19

There are obvious issues with conflicting definitions of woman. You say 'women only' what does that mean. What definition are you using?

babyjellyfish · 15/12/2022 09:20

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 08:55

At no point have I mentioned the phrase be kind.

I just pointed out that seine aaying you can't have a word that means opposites wasn't in fact true.

But given there are now posters arguing that established contronyms are in fact not contronyms then I'm not sure there's much point continuing

I'm not sure what point you're making though.

The examples you have given aren't used in the same way, we understand what is meant from the context.

If contronyms included using the word "cat" to refer to both cats and also some unspecified dogs, and everyone accepted this despite the fact that it was no longer possible to be sure whether someone is talking about a cat or a dog, you might have a point.

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 09:27

babyjellyfish · 15/12/2022 09:20

I'm not sure what point you're making though.

The examples you have given aren't used in the same way, we understand what is meant from the context.

If contronyms included using the word "cat" to refer to both cats and also some unspecified dogs, and everyone accepted this despite the fact that it was no longer possible to be sure whether someone is talking about a cat or a dog, you might have a point.

Okay I dont have a point, no one whose not 100% in alignment with the official MN GC remit has a point, no debate I get it.

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 09:27

Not only that, babyjellyfish but understanding the roots of the words and why they might seem to be opposing meanings when they are actually not fundamentally is important too.

When it refers to laws for protected groups. This is vital.

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 09:29

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 09:27

Okay I dont have a point, no one whose not 100% in alignment with the official MN GC remit has a point, no debate I get it.

Oh dear.

A rather hyperbolic reaction to being challenged, isn’t it?

Helleofabore · 15/12/2022 09:30

“no debate”

um. Debating with your assertion is exactly what we are doing though?

wincarwoo · 15/12/2022 09:33

Okay I dont have a point, no one whose not 100% in alignment with the official MN GC remit has a point, no debate I get it.

There is debate. Most don't agree with you and are articulating why eloquently.

ReneBumsWombats · 15/12/2022 09:57

Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead · 15/12/2022 09:27

Okay I dont have a point, no one whose not 100% in alignment with the official MN GC remit has a point, no debate I get it.

I think you need to look up the definition of "debate". Does it now mean not being countered?

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 15/12/2022 09:59

The new Newspeak dictionary.

SamphiretheTervosaurReturneth · 15/12/2022 10:01

I don't think some people actually get the language anyway.

Hardly surprising when a much lauded dictionary joins the eejits in determining that sex can be whatever you want it to be.

And yes, this is a debate. That you find yourself in a minority doesn't change that.

Or maybe it does in these Days of Humpty

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/12/2022 10:09

@Heavyraindropsarefallingonmyhead

At what point are adult human males considered the same as adult human females? Are they both men and women simultaneously?

akkakk · 15/12/2022 10:14

The definitions of man and woman are based on fact - not fashion, not trends, not the decisions of some ruling class, by their very definition facts are black and white, immutable, non-changeable.

So, there is no debate - if something is fact then any debate is pointless.

So there is a deep irony in a group of people claiming that debate should be allowed so that they can change the meaning of something established as the opposite in biological fact - and then refusing to allow debate over their false assertions...

it makes an observer ask the question as to what is behind all of this...

  • we all know what a man is and what a woman is
  • we all know tht your biological sex is determined by your birth and is shown through genitals / hormones / etc.
  • we all know that there is no biological process to change from one to the other
  • we all know that the concept of gender is societally imposed / recognised and therefore irrelevant, it can change and develop and there is no issue in it so doing
  • we all know that there is no issue in a boy liking 'girly things' or a girl wanting to play with 'boys' toys
  • we all know that a child exploring what they enjoy has nothing to do with their biological sex
  • we all know that whatever someone feels like in terms of their habits / dress preferences / activities, it doesn't make them any more male or female
  • we all know that whatever you are born biologically is what you remain for ever
  • we all know that surgery doesn't make a man into a woman or vice versa
  • etc.

So, let's allow folks to crack on with how they dress, the activities they do, whether they 'feel feminine' etc. - none of that has anything to do with biological sex

And let's continue to protect biological sex as being male or female, boy or girl, man or woman...

and challenge anything which pretends that it is different
and challenge any attitude that doesn't allow people to be what they are born - male or female.

motherofqilins · 15/12/2022 10:26

@akkakk very well put.

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