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Eastern European stag do help

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Treely912 · 07/12/2022 17:19

So I found out a while ago that my husband went to a lap dancing club twice on two separate stag dos and had private lap dances both times which i wasn’t happy about. He’s now told me he has another stag do in an Eastern European city and I can’t help but worry. He’s told me he wouldn’t have a private dance. Help!? What would you do?

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FurierTransform · 07/12/2022 21:36

I don't get the big deal. Its a stag do strip club visit. He's not cheating on you.

Omgmykidsneversleep · 07/12/2022 21:38

I couldn't deal with that. I'm zero tolerance and would literally have packed his bags the first time he received the lap dances. How disrespectful to you. Goodness me, what else has he been up to? How seedy.

FourChimneys · 07/12/2022 21:41

Yuck. Is he moving out or are you?

Backthetruckup · 07/12/2022 21:50

Balls. Earrings.

Trees6 · 07/12/2022 21:54

They’re seedy places whether they’re “regulated” or not. He’d probably pay for sexual activity in a UK one too. It’s his behaviour that is the problem, not the location.

fantasmasgoria1 · 07/12/2022 22:00

If my dh went to a lap dancing club the first time would be the last because I would end it. My opinion only but I would be done now. If your husband has done this twice he will likely do so a third time.

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