My DS is 5 and in Y1, this morning all the children were excited that their elves had visited them. I had previously told him that the elves were for children that miss behaved and the elves could report back to Santa. Now it looks like half his class have been miss behaving and I don't want him thinking he needs to be naughty tk get a elf🙈 I really don't want to begin elf on the shelf so I was hoping you lovely lot could help me come up with a better excuse before school pick up this afternoon 😬
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
170 votes. Final results.
POLLPickyEaters · 01/12/2022 19:00
I find it hard to believe that children of any school-going age would get so excited about a stuffed toy that they would talk about it at school, or even mention it to their friends.
What are they going to say?— "He was on top of the dishwasher this morning!". "Ooh, mine was behind the sofa!".
It's hardly gripping stuff.
I thought the elf was supposed to bring gifts hence the excitement.
Needless to say I don't do this and never have done.
TheKeatingFive · 01/12/2022 15:07
What I hate is the whole contrived / invented tradition aspect.
Every tradition was 'invented' at some point. Your Christmas will be full of contrived, invented traditions like trees, crackers, turkey, etc.
OP just say you aren't doing it, all houses do Christmas differently. No need to more than this or being snide about other people's kids.
pepperminttaste · 02/12/2022 06:59
Well, I don't have the time or inclination for it at all but for the first time ever last night my youngest (8) asked if we could get one. In previous years she's just asked why we don't have one. We said a flat no and then OH jokingly said, 'Why don't you get a toy, get it to do stuff every single night and then tidy it all up the next day?' Oh she looked so disappointed. Anyway, when I went to bed she'd hidden her cuddly Mog behind our curtain rail for us.
I might compromise. Thinking maybe take her Olaf toy, leave a note saying 'Mum and Dad are elf grinches, I'm not here to spy, I'm only going to show up a few times because otherwise I'm a pain in the backside'.
Think her and her sister will see the funny side of that... Maybe!
DrinkReprehensibly · 02/12/2022 07:48
I don't have kids but I see several friends posting about the antics of their elves. The effort is insane.
I don't get the apparent contradiction of the elf supposedly making sure the kids aren't being naughty in the run up to Christmas whilst demonstrating such misbehaviour themselves. Are they not being a bad influence on the children? What does santa think about what the elves are doing? It seems confusing to me. Or is it just parents taking it further than the original concept was intended to?
GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/12/2022 08:50
Had this yesterday from dd with 3 young dcs 😂
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ladymarmiteee · 02/12/2022 07:39
That's really sad.
Would it kill you to get one (they're about £2) and just move it around? You don't have to do all the big, messy, time consuming stunts.
pepperminttaste · 02/12/2022 06:59
Well, I don't have the time or inclination for it at all but for the first time ever last night my youngest (8) asked if we could get one. In previous years she's just asked why we don't have one. We said a flat no and then OH jokingly said, 'Why don't you get a toy, get it to do stuff every single night and then tidy it all up the next day?' Oh she looked so disappointed. Anyway, when I went to bed she'd hidden her cuddly Mog behind our curtain rail for us.
I might compromise. Thinking maybe take her Olaf toy, leave a note saying 'Mum and Dad are elf grinches, I'm not here to spy, I'm only going to show up a few times because otherwise I'm a pain in the backside'.
Think her and her sister will see the funny side of that... Maybe!
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