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Most people make terrible food and can't actually cook.

468 replies

ImNotEntirelySureAboutThat · 26/11/2022 00:25

They can't.

I read such horrors on food threads.

Either courgettes and mushrooms mixed in a worthy mushy horror.

OR jars, and packets.

Horrible. So. Much. Horrible. Foood.

OP posts:
RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 12:43

JunkIsland · 26/11/2022 12:00

@RedAppleGirl you’re getting ‘testy’ replies because your posts are coming across as incredibly smug and superior. Is there a lot of bad food here? Yes. Is there a lot of ignorance about good food? Yes. Are tomatoes in Tesco as nice as ones bought locally in Southern Europe? No. But it’s just not accurate to dismiss the entire food culture here as poor - things have changed massively over the last few decades, and you come across as doggedly determined to stick to a view of food in Britain that is outdated.

Reminds me of my Italian BIL who came back from a break in London raving about what he’d seen, adding “of course, all the food there was awful.” I couldn’t help but wonder where he’d been eating. Angus Steakhouse for every meal?

I'm not getting testy replies. The thread is generating testy replies. There's a key difference.
We too are very reluctant to eat out, I make home-cooked food from my country, and Dp is a dab hand at multi-national cuisine. it's so tasty.
The key difference is, food is part of our relationship and our familial ties. Dp did say when he was a boy a large multigenerational family gathering was standard in his grandparent's home. Now not at all. I still have huge familial meetups where food is front and center. With literally dozens of dishes.

dontcallmethatyoucunt · 26/11/2022 12:46

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 12:43

I'm not getting testy replies. The thread is generating testy replies. There's a key difference.
We too are very reluctant to eat out, I make home-cooked food from my country, and Dp is a dab hand at multi-national cuisine. it's so tasty.
The key difference is, food is part of our relationship and our familial ties. Dp did say when he was a boy a large multigenerational family gathering was standard in his grandparent's home. Now not at all. I still have huge familial meetups where food is front and center. With literally dozens of dishes.

Gosh, you really are the only family to manage that. How wonderful you are

Rocksludge · 26/11/2022 12:46

I’m going to defend American food. It’s a massive country and there is some incredible food - often in any sense of the word. Hugely varied.

Lazy stereotypes and sweeping generalisations are not helpful.

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 12:52

Rocksludge · 26/11/2022 12:46

I’m going to defend American food. It’s a massive country and there is some incredible food - often in any sense of the word. Hugely varied.

Lazy stereotypes and sweeping generalisations are not helpful.

I agree. I have eaten some amazing food in the US. As with all things, there’s a range.

Weightlossanne · 26/11/2022 13:02

ImNotEntirelySureAboutThat · 26/11/2022 00:49

Most people are average.

Fact.

Obviously most people are average.

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:05

dontcallmethatyoucunt · 26/11/2022 12:46

Gosh, you really are the only family to manage that. How wonderful you are

Looking at your username I don't expect intelligent replies. Are you British by any chance.

Always4Brenner · 26/11/2022 13:09

I live on casseroles spag Bol curry’s cook own pasta rice etc but use sauces vegetables prepared as can’t chop now.ni used to cook lasssgnes cottage pie but can’t now. It may not be five star but I’m happy stew and a crispy dumpling for tea.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 26/11/2022 13:11

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 12:52

I agree. I have eaten some amazing food in the US. As with all things, there’s a range.

I'd live on Cajun chicken if I could. And some of the Thanksgiving recipes floating about recently have looked divine.

Cornettoninja · 26/11/2022 13:12

I'm not getting testy replies. The thread is generating testy replies

’there’s no way I could be the problem’

GrinGrin

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:20

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:05

Looking at your username I don't expect intelligent replies. Are you British by any chance.

You don’t like word play? Perhaps your understanding is not as great in that area either.

PinkSyCo · 26/11/2022 13:23

ImNotEntirelySureAboutThat · 26/11/2022 00:31

I've eaten most people's food.

Most people can not cook.

They can't

Wow you must be really really fat if you’ve eaten most people’s food!!!

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:24

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:20

You don’t like word play? Perhaps your understanding is not as great in that area either.

Perhaps it's vulgar and not funny.🙄

Bonjovispyjamas · 26/11/2022 13:26

Nearly 8 billion people in the world and you've eaten most of their food? Wow, you have been busy 😆 and I'm a bloody good cook I'll have you know, anyone who has tried my cooking will tell you the same and no jars of sauce 😊

Parker231 · 26/11/2022 13:26

I think most people would like to think that they are a good cook but in reality are always short of time and are juggling between themselves and their DH as to who will be home from work first and be able to pull a meal together before they turn around to take DC’s to gym class, football practice, judo etc. Most people probably use more short cuts than they would admit to!

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:27

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:24

Perhaps it's vulgar and not funny.🙄

Oh it’s definitely vulgar, but it’s not pompous and self aggrandising. One picks one’s own route.

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:32

The problem is British food is still poor. This is a global opinion.
Who knew!

Maverickess · 26/11/2022 13:37

I'll freely admit I'm a terrible cook, packets and sauces all the way! And food from work the rest of the time.
But as I'm not offering to feed you (I don't offer to feed anyone because I find cooking incredibly boring) I don't know why it'd bother you so much?

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:37

RedAppleGirl · 26/11/2022 13:32

The problem is British food is still poor. This is a global opinion.
Who knew!

Only a problem if you can’t cook.

I don’t eat anywhere that can’t cook better than I can.

Generally British food is pretty poor, but not all British food.

Sweeping generalisations don’t really add much. Who knew 🙄

Parker231 · 26/11/2022 13:42

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:37

Only a problem if you can’t cook.

I don’t eat anywhere that can’t cook better than I can.

Generally British food is pretty poor, but not all British food.

Sweeping generalisations don’t really add much. Who knew 🙄

You wouldn’t accept a dinner invite to friends unless they could cook better than you??

when we lived in the UK we often had friends for dinner but we bought it from COOK to save time - a much better meal than you or I could prepare.

Magnificentlymediocre · 26/11/2022 13:46

Parker231 · 26/11/2022 13:42

You wouldn’t accept a dinner invite to friends unless they could cook better than you??

when we lived in the UK we often had friends for dinner but we bought it from COOK to save time - a much better meal than you or I could prepare.

I should have said I wouldn’t pay to eat anywhere. Of course I’ll eat my friends food.

Cook for is pretty good, but it is cooked by people, you do know that right? It is no better than my cooking. Genuinely, it’s just normal
food.

Annabel073 · 26/11/2022 13:47

when we lived in the UK we often had friends for dinner but we bought it from COOK to save time - a much better meal than you or I could prepare.

I know without doubt I could prepare better food than COOK sells.

antelopevalley · 26/11/2022 13:48

I have bought food from COOK, but I can make better food.

MarshaBradyo · 26/11/2022 13:48

Parker231 · 26/11/2022 13:42

You wouldn’t accept a dinner invite to friends unless they could cook better than you??

when we lived in the UK we often had friends for dinner but we bought it from COOK to save time - a much better meal than you or I could prepare.

It might be true in your case but how can you say that about someone you don’t know

Parker231 · 26/11/2022 13:50

MarshaBradyo · 26/11/2022 13:48

It might be true in your case but how can you say that about someone you don’t know

In the same way as posters can say that they can prepare a better meal than COOK - which I doubt as everyone I know raves about their meals. Am missing them now we’ve left the UK.

Peashoots · 26/11/2022 13:51

pictish · 26/11/2022 10:04

I do agree with this. The supermarkets are mainly stocked with processed, packaged, ready made, convenience-based shit over actual ingredients to cook with. There’s no choice when it comes to quantity either. Serves four…but you need five? You’re buying two. Need three steaks? Have four.
There’s a lot of wastage owing to portioning by supermarkets, while of course, they profit.

I do try to shop so I can avoid this…I’ll make it to an actual butcher for example or stock up pulses at the wholefood shop…but I haven’t got the hours in a day to be dedicating to clever food shopping, so for much of the time, the local Tesco it is. They have us all in their thrall don’t they?

But you find this with supermarkets the world over. I’ve lived in both France and Spain, a plethora of convenience foods and junk foods available. It’s kind of the point of supermarkets really.