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To be utterly fed up of covid

158 replies

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 09:52

I've just tested positive for the seventh fucking time. Last time was mid September. I've had it five times this year.

I've had to cancel a hospital appointment that had been rescheduled from the last time I had it and a dentist's appointment that I'm desperate for. Also a long planned day out yesterday. Plus I feel like utter shite. Again.

Just want a moan and some sympathy really. Bastard covid.

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fluffiphlox · 21/11/2022 11:09

You have been very unlucky. Where do you think you are catching it? I have had it once in July and I’m pretty sure I know how and where I got it.

CantTalkFacts · 21/11/2022 11:09

Marmunia19751066 · 21/11/2022 10:38

I think possibly the vaccines are exacerbating the situation. Most people I know who are triple vaxxed are suffering badly whereas for the unvaxxed it's a mild cold - mine was a headache for five days only.

Eh?

Fully vaccinated here, large family still regularly testing due to our jobs and vulnerable family members, most of us haven’t had it once.

Couple have had it multiple times but certainly seeing no correlation with vaccination status here.

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:10

BonnesVacances · 21/11/2022 10:50

Are you masking up and trying not to catch it? I know that only goes so far if no one else is though. But it's better than nothing and will confer a level of protection.

DD's a teacher and I think that's where most of the infections are coming from. That said she doesn't have it this time (yet).

In my experience you can't 'try not to catch it' unless you're able to stay home, not use public transport and not have much contact with the outside world generally - all things I can't do. Throughout lockdowns I didn't catch it once (DD started teaching last September). I don't really go anywhere but when I do I need to use buses to do so.

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SirMingeALot · 21/11/2022 11:12

There's no evidence that vaccines are exacerbating the situation.

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:12

fluffiphlox · 21/11/2022 11:09

You have been very unlucky. Where do you think you are catching it? I have had it once in July and I’m pretty sure I know how and where I got it.

DD is a teacher and has brought it into the house a few times (currently they have loads of staff and kids off with it so that may be it this time too). Also I'm immunosuppressed and catching every bug going is my superpower apparently.

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SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:14

Thank you for all the good wishes 💐

And to all those currently lurgyfied too, get well soon!

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UnmentionedElephantDildo · 21/11/2022 11:15

SirMingeALot · 21/11/2022 11:03

Yes. Not the first time you've been told this, either.

Mask mandates existed in the various constituent countries of the UK until earlier this year. They didn't prevent Omicron from ripping through the population and nor did the parts of the UK that retained them longer do any better than those that didn't. England and Scotland is a useful case study here and, because of the culturally specific factor that is Partygate, the most relevant evidence.

Nobody who thinks mask mandates, as distinct from the whole population being willing and able to wear good quality masks, is ever able to explain why this was the case. Hence the vague attempts to claim it isn't relevant. Because it's inconvenient.

You are completely missing the point about the need to remove confounders.

Repeating the raw data does not replace the need for that.

<bangs head on desk>

Please look at the peer-reviewed international evidence base

<gives up at this point, but still hoping that at least some readers will recognise why that example is bad science>

SirMingeALot · 21/11/2022 11:21

UnmentionedElephantDildo · 21/11/2022 11:15

You are completely missing the point about the need to remove confounders.

Repeating the raw data does not replace the need for that.

<bangs head on desk>

Please look at the peer-reviewed international evidence base

<gives up at this point, but still hoping that at least some readers will recognise why that example is bad science>

Nah, it's just that removing cofounders isn't the get out clause that you want it to be so you can try and pretend the UK domestic examples didn't happen. It says everything that you've been completely unable to come up with an explanation as to how that might actually work: because you know it will immediately be possible to pull it full of holes.

IncessantNameChanger · 21/11/2022 11:28

I've only had it twice that I'm aware of. I think getting it early pre vaccine in hindsight makes me feel less concerned. But I still know people have only caught it for the first time in the last few months. Weird virus for sure how it impacts different people. Sounds like 50% of one of the dc has it right now. If ds goes down I won't test him now I know he's had it once.

No idea what the answers are?

courgettigreensadwater · 21/11/2022 11:32

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 21/11/2022 09:54

I didn't realise people were still testing. Just treat it like any illness, if you feel ill cancel stuff and stay home, if you don't carry on as usual

This. Treat as any other virus.

NoNameNowAgain · 21/11/2022 11:32

Get well soon!

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:34

courgettigreensadwater · 21/11/2022 11:32

This. Treat as any other virus.

That's exactly what I'm doing - unfortunately when you're CEV that means something a bit different than it does for most people!

Also re hospital appointments - I'd cancel even if I was asymptomatic but positive, as the department I visit is full of people with autoimmune conditions like mine so it would be a bit twattish to do otherwise.

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Venetiaparties · 21/11/2022 11:38

courgettigreensadwater · 21/11/2022 11:32

This. Treat as any other virus.

The problem is - it is not like any other virus. I needed two weeks off last time, this time it looks like it is going the same way. We have all been really really ill!!! If I had a cold I would expect it to be done and dusted in three days and take some meds and get on as usual, even the flu is just 5-7 days for most people. Every time we get covid it takes weeks and weeks to recover. So whilst I don't expect fanfare for struggling through it yet again, as I am sure op doesn't either, it is taking months and months out of my life.
And it keeps reinfecting everyone!
We can't just pretend it is all fine. It is not fine.

I can't even walk and down the stairs I am so breathless, or stand straight as I am so dizzy and feel wretched. I am healthy and young, my kids have been utterly flattened by it.

I am sure you have your own reasons to minimise and ignore people's concern and suffering, but honestly a little empathy for op would go a long way!

fluffiphlox · 21/11/2022 11:41

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:12

DD is a teacher and has brought it into the house a few times (currently they have loads of staff and kids off with it so that may be it this time too). Also I'm immunosuppressed and catching every bug going is my superpower apparently.

Oh yes that will do it. There’s a reason those washing pod adverts say ‘keep away from children’. Any sign of her getting her own place? 😀

katesbushh · 21/11/2022 11:41

You poor thing

I have had it 4 times
The worst for me was the last one in October.
But I'd had it in July too so I wonder if that's why.
I have to test for work.

I hope you feel better soon.

antelopevalley · 21/11/2022 11:46

Phos · 21/11/2022 10:30

Get well soon.

I wonder why some people get it so much and others avoid it completely. It's so odd. Must be something genetic.

I have read research that some people are more genetically susceptible to covid.

Billstopay · 21/11/2022 11:47

7 times eeek. I’m on my 3rd round and feel terrible. I have just had antivirals arrive, I’m CV, not CEV so not sure why they won’t give them to you anymore?

Bestcatmum · 21/11/2022 11:51

Its weird, here in the NHS we have staff who have had it multiple times 5-7 on average, I worked on covid ward the whole way through and never got it but have been plagued by horrible non covid lurgies one after the other.

SingMeToSIeep · 21/11/2022 11:51

Billstopay · 21/11/2022 11:47

7 times eeek. I’m on my 3rd round and feel terrible. I have just had antivirals arrive, I’m CV, not CEV so not sure why they won’t give them to you anymore?

Neither am I! Last time I had it someone I spoke to said they're now only giving them to the most vulnerable patients (solid transplant recipients, blood cancer patients) because of cost issues. Which is fair enough, they definitely need them more than I do. It was very reassuring though knowing that I was able to access them when I caught Covid - it's a bit more worrying now I'm on my own as it were!

I hope they kick in for you quickly and you feel better soon, they're marvellous and always worked a treat for me 💐

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Irishfarmer · 21/11/2022 11:59

Phos · 21/11/2022 10:30

Get well soon.

I wonder why some people get it so much and others avoid it completely. It's so odd. Must be something genetic.

I think it has to be down to genetics. I got it DH did not isolate from me, his brothers wife got it, BIL did not. My SIL (his sister) works in a hospital, everyone she works with got it at some point she didn't!

ThereIsNoSuchThingAsRoadTax · 21/11/2022 11:59

Newusernameaug · 21/11/2022 10:13

Have you not realised yet that the tests have a really high false positive rate? Hence why your positive so many times!

No, they do not.
LTFs have a fairly low sensitivity - they miss some positives.

But they have a low false positive rate.
If they say you have covid, you probably do.
If they say you don't have covid, you still might.

Booklover3 · 21/11/2022 12:02

Ah that really sucks OP. I’m sorry you’ve had it so many times!

Mañanarama · 21/11/2022 12:10

Irishfarmer · 21/11/2022 11:59

I think it has to be down to genetics. I got it DH did not isolate from me, his brothers wife got it, BIL did not. My SIL (his sister) works in a hospital, everyone she works with got it at some point she didn't!

I think there’s some truth in this. None of my husbands family have had it despite being around it.

My household has had 3 bouts, me and the kids one after the other. My friend’s household is on their 14th or 15th round between them. Both two adults and two teens (who are all close friends and go to the same school). It’s weird.

Booklover3 · 21/11/2022 12:11

endofthelinefinally · 21/11/2022 11:05

I am immunosuppressed and have had 5 vaccinations and had covid once. I was lucky that I had a short illness and it wasn't severe.
Now it looks as if a new strain is coming out of China.
In the end I don't know if we can keep on testing, isolating, vaccinating. It just goes on and on.

Why do you think a new strain is coming out of China? It looks like they are having another outbreak but I can’t find any information on a new strain?

etulosba · 21/11/2022 12:15

I've only had it twice that I'm aware of. I think getting it early pre vaccine in hindsight makes me feel less concerned

I got it pre-vaccine. Five weeks off work almost hospitalised and then phased return. Managed to avoid it for two years but now I’ve just had it again triple boosted. Five days this time. Nowhere near as bad.

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