I think I'm losing my touch because I'm not cross at DH

[Twiglett]

who totally forgot to leave the office to be home by 2pm to watch DD so I could take DS to hospital for post-operative check-up

I was understanding and calm, rational and not cross at all

I'm really not feeling myself

are you coming down with something?

Are you pregnant?

Did you just overloaded his credit card? or broken something he deeply appreciated?

It is a delayed reaction thing.

He will do something innocuous like break a teacup tonight and you will go off in an incandescent rage 'you fucking, inconsiderate, incompetent, inept selfish IDIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTTTT!!!'

in order

no, don't think so
no, definitely not
no of course I haven't on either
yeah maybe

I've stopped getting cross at nearly everything that happens (or doesn't) in my family now. Makes life much better all round.