I’m starting a new thread as advised by some posters and because the first thread was a great source of support for me (link to first thread here).
Long story short - DS (16) is in a “relationship” with a woman 11 years older than him that I believe started before he turned 16 at the end of July, though they both denied that to police and SS. I tried everything I could think of to stop it but he walked out of the house to stay with her at the end of September and I’m struggling to maintain contact with him. I’ve barely been able to see or speak to him since he left. She has shown very controlling behaviour and he is slowly becoming isolated from me, his friends and hobbies etc. Social services are currently involved, doing an assessment, but have already said it’s very difficult to do much without him consenting to input/intervention so I think they’re trying to prepare me for a poor outcome of the assessment. I am trying to focus on keeping my relationship with him going and ensuring he knows I’m here whenever he needs me and can come home whenever he needs no questions asked.
AIBU?
To think someone must be able to do something - part two
PurpleLampShades · 14/11/2022 19:22
winteriscoming2022 · 26/11/2022 09:43
Just a thought OP but I've got a feeling that if a 16 year old can be seen to be 'estranged' from parents he may be able to claim benefits, UC I think ( I know it used to be the case for Income support anyway)
Someone more knowledgeable re benefits hopefully will add to this
Of course you may well not want to pass this information on to your DS!
I really feel for you
PurpleLampShades · 26/11/2022 17:24
No, he didn’t come over yesterday. He text me to say that he was still sorting it out with gf and that he’d be over next week. Not sure what he has to sort with her but I just said ok and looking forward to seeing him.
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