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Xtraincome · 12/11/2022 12:44

Right Mumsnet,

What is the one word/syndrome/behaviour for the below...

Example. Someone has fucked up massively. They have a choice to stop fucking up but carry on as they don't want to lose face so continue doing the stupid thing.

Any ideas?

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ApolloandDaphne · 12/11/2022 12:47

Stubborn, pig headed, obdurate, head strong. Any of them fit?

vivainsomnia · 12/11/2022 12:48

Persistent 😄

BIWI · 12/11/2022 12:49

intransigent
/ɪnˈtransɪdʒ(ə)nt/

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adjective
adjective: intransigent
unwilling or refusing to change one's views or to agree about something.
"her father had tried persuasion, but she was intransigent"

Beachbodyready · 12/11/2022 12:49

Tory

picklemewalnuts · 12/11/2022 13:40

Doubling down.

bravotango · 12/11/2022 13:49

Trussing? Doing a Truss?

CraggyIslandTouristBoard · 12/11/2022 14:01

Hellbent on something?

Igglepiggleslittletoe · 12/11/2022 14:52

Wankerism.

Xtraincome · 12/11/2022 15:15

Your answers are completely ace but not what I'm looking for.

Another example to assist:
Husband has affair, their relationship is a shit show. H gets chucked out by wife but has to carry on with OW due to major uproar it caused regardless of it being the right thing.

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picklemewalnuts · 12/11/2022 15:20

Cutting off your nose to spite your face?

Folly?

Stupidity?

I'm not sure what you are looking for. These are foolish behaviours, but don't necessarily have their own name/condition.

People get trapped in situations all the time, because they've not fully considered consequences and have burned their boats.

ElegantlyTouched · 12/11/2022 15:35

Sunk cost fallacy.

ElegantlyTouched · 12/11/2022 15:36

You keep throwing money at something because you've spent so much on it to begin with, even though it's not improving.

Igglepiggleslittletoe · 12/11/2022 15:38

Karma.

barskits · 12/11/2022 15:40

ElegantlyTouched · 12/11/2022 15:35

Sunk cost fallacy.

That's it. You carry on doing something that you know is wrong, but can't face giving up because you have already invested too much into it.

StrangerOnline · 12/11/2022 15:40

ElegantlyTouched · 12/11/2022 15:35

Sunk cost fallacy.

Yep - this ⬆️

StrangerOnline · 12/11/2022 15:44

www.grammarly.com/blog/sunk-cost-fallacy/

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CulturePigeon · 12/11/2022 15:45

Obstinate? Stubborn? Dogged? Bloody-minded?

Xtraincome · 12/11/2022 20:08

Sunk Cost Fallacy!!! @ElegantlyTouched
You did it!!
Thank you 😊

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Xtraincome · 12/11/2022 20:11

Thank you to everyone else. All the vocabulary was spot-on just not what I was trying to recall.

Trying to Google it was ridiculous, no chance. I knew MN would figure it out.

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