To think he’s wasting my time

[Notfeelingitt]

the guy I have been seeing for a month is always saying how much he likes me and buying me gifts even when he says he has no money so we haven’t been on a proper date. He just wants to come over to my house. He told me before that he hardly drinks but he keeps going out on night outs and getting really drunk then ignoring me. I am meant to be seeing him tomorrow but he is out and has ignored me.

Yeah you sound like a booty call really. Or will be one.

Chuck him back and move onto the next.

Dump, now.

You're wasting your own time if you keep going with him!

This is not the path to happiness. Please move on.

Forget, plenty more fish in the sea.

Is that the kind of relationship you’re looking for?

Only wasting your time if you let him.
It would only get worse and no more gifts once he's visited you, Chuck him back

He is now putting photos on his story of a girl kissing his cheek

What a prize

Have some self respect and dump the moron.

Time to throw this fish back in the sea I believe. He's deliberately posting that so that you'll see them. He's got no respect for you.

Have some self respect and tell him to fuck off.
He's a total fanny.

Fucking hell. It's quite alarming that you haven't dumped him by now.

He’s a prize bell-end, op. Shit with money, shit at keeping in contact and ignores you, drinks heavily but pretends not to for some unfathomable reason…it shouldn’t be this hard after four weeks. Chuck him back in the sea.

Respect yourself.
Bin and block

Just an update. I will definitely cut contact but he has just messaged saying he loves and appreciates me

Classic head fuck material. Bin him now xxx

Saying he loves you after a month while showing you he really doesn’t is him keeping you dangling. This should be an enormous red flag to you. Throw him back.

Of course he did, to secure an easy shag. Wise up, op.

He is using you.

Oh walk away sweetie right now!