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AIBU?

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Joke or not?

33 replies

Practicaljoke · 11/11/2022 19:36

Person 1 is sat on the sofa feeling ill.

Person 2 walks in with mug of coffee and trips, pretending to throw coffee over person 1. Cup is actually empty and it’s a practical joke.

Person 1 very annoyed and doesn’t find this funny.

Person 2 cannot understand why person 1 would be annoyed and thinks they are unreasonable for overreacting to a joke.

Vote YABU if it is funny and person 1 should not overreact.

Vote YANBU if it is not funny and person 2 is being a dick.

OP posts:
XenoBitch · 11/11/2022 19:39

My dad used to do this all the time. Was really annoying.

Sparkletastic · 11/11/2022 19:39

So fucking annoying. YANBU

Imonita · 11/11/2022 19:40

The old adage is, it's only funny if both parties are laughing

AuntieDickhead · 11/11/2022 19:40

I wouldn't find that funny if I wasn't feeling ill.

PeekabooAtTheZoo · 11/11/2022 19:43

Person 2 is an arsehole. If it startles someone or scares them, it's not a joke IMO.

CSR721 · 11/11/2022 19:43

I wouldn't have got annoyed at the 'joke' but doubt I would have found it funny either, and would probably get annoyed at someone for getting annoyed at the fact that I wouldn't find it funny. If that makes sense?!?!

ErrolTheDragon · 11/11/2022 20:00

YANBU.
Person 2 needs to make amends by meekly bringing Person 1 a nice cup of tea or hot toddy or whatever might make them feel better.

AssignedSlytherinAtBirth · 11/11/2022 20:02

This kind of thing belongs on April 1st only.

Oysterbabe · 11/11/2022 20:03

Gosh I wo Derek which one you are 🤔

Oysterbabe · 11/11/2022 20:03

Oysterbabe · 11/11/2022 20:03

Gosh I wo Derek which one you are 🤔

  • I wonder which one you are. FML
AssignedSlytherinAtBirth · 11/11/2022 20:04

I am guessing this is a male vs female thing - man does it to woman, and not the other way round. Is that right? I can't imagine a woman doing this to a bloke, especially if he's not feeling well.

Practicaljoke · 11/11/2022 20:05

Yes, you’re correct.

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Kanaloa · 11/11/2022 20:05

I hate practical jokes. If you’re over 8 years old and not a cast member on Impractical Jokers then they’re extremely unfunny and pathetic.

Either way nobody would ever do a practical joke on me because I make it known that it isn’t funny. And a practical joke where the victim doesn’t find it funny isn’t really a joke.

Practicaljoke · 11/11/2022 20:06

AssignedSlytherinAtBirth · 11/11/2022 20:04

I am guessing this is a male vs female thing - man does it to woman, and not the other way round. Is that right? I can't imagine a woman doing this to a bloke, especially if he's not feeling well.

Yes, that’s correct.

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RaraRachael · 11/11/2022 20:14

I hate practical jokes and wouldn't find this funny at all. We had a guy at work who did this sort of thing all the time. Everybody thought he was a complete dick but he thought he was hilarious.

ZooMemories · 11/11/2022 20:30

Checking you're really ill my bet...ooooh you moved fast to get out of the way...you can't be ill etc etc

MadMadMadamMim · 11/11/2022 20:31

It's presumably designed to make you jump or flinch? Hilarious. Not funny when you're not ill. Pretty shitty thing to do so someone who's not feeling well. He's an immature tosser.

Georgeskitchen · 11/11/2022 20:49

If they do it 20 times yes it's bloody annoying, do it once it's not really worth stressing over

NumberTheory · 11/11/2022 20:52

If I were the sick person I’d find it really annoying. If I wasn’t the sick person and it was well done I could appreciate the slapstick comedy value but also think it wasn’t not an appropriate joke at the time given the illness.

Sunnytwobridges · 11/11/2022 20:59

Blech. This is the shit my ex would do. He would've done stupid shit like this too. I hate that kind of humor.

imnottoofussed · 11/11/2022 21:05

It's something I'd just roll my eyes at really, nothing to get particularly annoyed about

wastedofworld · 11/11/2022 21:07

I absolutely despise the self styled japsters.

WhyOY · 11/11/2022 21:08

Why would you deliberately scare the shit out of someone. Being scalded isn't a laughing matter.

girlmom21 · 11/11/2022 21:11

It's not funny but not worth getting upset over.

Pixiedust1234 · 11/11/2022 21:14

Jokes are supposed to be funny to other people not just the joker. It is not relevant if one of you wasn't well. It wasn't funny to begin with.