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How do you wear a strappy dress  without exposing your bra?

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GoneWiththeWind1 · 11/11/2022 17:58

I'm quite top-heavy, so I definitely need support, and strapless is far too uncomfortable for me. How are you all dealing with this situation? If you don't wear a bra, how do you ensure you're not over-revealing yourself? Do you wear a bra with no straps? Do you wear pasties? Any suggestions?

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GoneWiththeWind1 · 13/11/2022 22:10

saltinesandcoffeecups · 11/11/2022 19:29

I had to learn this lesson this year… here is my report.

This isn’t the same brand I used but I used something similar. The key is the shape (tear drop) and to use nipple covers. Silicone booby covers

They stayed put and the shape allowed for a little more coverage and lift. Weather was hot, humid, damp because of rain, the covers stayed securely in place for over 6 hours.

My backup was going to be a layer of boob tape to give lift and structure but I didn’t need it. read reviews and watch YouTube for help.

Here is where I went wrong, The boobies I used had small clips to help with cleavage. That didn’t work great with the cut of the dress. I used clear double side tape to make sure the dress stayed put. That didn’t hold up as well to the heat and humidity so it started to come undone a bit. Luckily I was wearing a flower lei so the tape just kept the flowers from moving which provided the needed modesty. Next time I wear the dress I won’t use the cleavage clip.

Good luck!

@saltinesandcoffeecups i really like your idea. Especially a boob tape. Thanks sharing the link

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Chobbers · 13/11/2022 22:13

You can buy small hook type things that you sew into the dress strap and then just place the bra strap into it.

I think they’re called StrapTrap or similar. Can buy them at haberdashers or similar.
Bit fiddly but they work well.

PeloFondo · 13/11/2022 22:16

Too top heavy Sad
I can't wear strappy, backless, halter neck, strapless... it's bloody limiting to find party outfits especially when I was younger

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GoneWiththeWind1 · 13/11/2022 22:19

Thanks , for all the suggestions. Yes it a good idea to choose a dress with wide straps but it is not always easy. As winters are at the corner into not a pressing issue. For the time being, I’m more than happy to use a cardi. Some of your ease with straps on show but I found it uncomfortable even see through ones.

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feelthebeatfromthetangerine · 13/11/2022 22:26

Autumnmoonshines · 11/11/2022 22:52

www.mannersldn.com

you all need to try this .. I hardly ever wear bras now. Even with 2 backless dresses. Really is worth the money and really comfy.

"PLEASE USE A SECURE SHIPPING ADDRESS. As per our policies, we are not liable for damaged, lost, or stolen packages. Once your order is with the mail service, it is out of our hands. You are entitled to compensation from Royal Mail should something happen to your order."

I don't like the sound of this policy at all.

ping78 · 14/11/2022 07:22

@feelthebeatfromthetangerine I doubt it's even enforceable, is it the consumer rights act? Either way there are laws particularly with online shopping.

Yarrawonga · 14/11/2022 09:25

Under the Consumer Rights Act 2015, online sellers are responsible for making sure your order is delivered to you at your address or to an agreed alternative safe place.

Citizens Advice

soberfabulous · 14/11/2022 10:06

minipie · 11/11/2022 18:11

I don’t buy dresses unless the straps are wide enough to cover my bra straps, or it’s a shape where I can get away without a bra.

Can’t get used to the bra straps on show look personally.

Same same

Name99 · 14/11/2022 10:35

Autumnmoonshines · 11/11/2022 22:52

www.mannersldn.com

you all need to try this .. I hardly ever wear bras now. Even with 2 backless dresses. Really is worth the money and really comfy.

I don't understand the products, are the tops and dresses fitted with extra boob support?

TheProblemIsMe · 14/11/2022 11:21

Tape

Autumnmoonshines · 16/11/2022 11:48

@Name99

They are made with extra thick and stretchy cotton. Elastane and cotton, honestly i don't know how they work but they do.
They don't have anything built in, its just the super thick cotton and its so supportive. I have so many of their clothes, they are the comfiest.

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