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To beg for more help for 8 week old

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twotiredwithtwo · 10/11/2022 09:20

DD is 8 weeks old and has a chest infection. It started Sunday but just seemed like a mild cold, by Monday she seemed worse but still along the lines of a rotten cold and not too serious. She deteriorated that night and so I booked an appt with the GP on Tuesday who diagnosed a chest infection and prescribed antibiotics. DD is being sick after most doses and no improvement, sucking in under ribs and barely feeding so I took her back to GP yesterday who said it was worrying but he thought overall she was fine to be at home but booked her in for another check this morning to decide if she needed to be admitted to paeds for monitoring.

Last night DD had a terrifying turn where she coughed so badly and was choking on mucus, she was having long gaps between breathing and going purple. I was already on the phone to 111 as her coughing fit had been going on for over half an hour and she couldn't catch her breath but when the breathing became so unstable they sorted an ambulance for us. Typically by the time the ambulance arrived, she had finally stopped coughing and was breathing more normally, although still sucking in a lot under the ribs. She was taken in to hospital where they barely looked at her, said her stats were fine and she looked well, to continue with the antibiotics although I mentioned she is sick after each dose and that the coughing is just her trying to clear her mucus. The only thing they did was give her liquid glucose as her blood sugar was too low. They told me not to let the GP push for a paeds admission today as they would only monitor her anyway.

I understand that she has to cough it up and it will sound awful but the fact that she was having long pauses between breaths and really struggling to draw in breath was surely not okay? She has been wheezing and had another episode of severe coughing where she had one long pause between breathing about half an hour ago. I have the GP appt shortly, WIBU tp request she has the paeds admission because I am terrified every time she coughs that she will stop breathing, even when she's fine she's retracting under her ribs. I feel if they witnessed one of her episodes, they'd take it more seriously but she seems to settle each time she's seen. Sorry this is so long but any advice would be appreciated, I don't want to overreact but I know she's not well.

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Numbat2022 · 10/11/2022 23:27

They should be feeding you as a breastfeeding mum, and you need to drink water. Go to the nurses station and ask them for some. Look after yourself, being in hospital with a little one is absolutely shit and so distressing, you need to keep yourself healthy.

In our pediatric unit there's a parents' room with toasters and microwaves, it's also the only place you're allowed a hot drink. It's easy to miss unless someone tells you it's down the corridor, so do ask if there's anywhere like that.

Get your husband to bring you in some food and drink you like, especially juicy fruit like grapes - hospitals are hot and dehydrating. Also comfy clothes and clean pants, and any toiletries you need - everything is easier when you feel clean. And make sure you get out for a walk when he comes back, you need some fresh air away from the beeps.

twotiredwithtwo · 10/11/2022 23:38

Thank you for all the advice, you were all right there is a parent's room where they have some biscuits etc. I've managed two biscuits and some water and am back on the pump again. I'll definitely be asking DH to bring in some food tomorrow though. Good news, DD has been taken off oxygen for now, I'm anxiously watching the monitor hoping her levels stay up.

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ladydimitrescu · 10/11/2022 23:43

Sending you a big hug, there is nothing worse than seeing your baby really poorly. Well done for pushing and being her voice, she's being treated because of you Flowers

Numbat2022 · 11/11/2022 07:47

That's brilliant she's off the oxygen already. I hope you had a good night and managed to get some sleep between obs.

rainbowstardrops · 11/11/2022 10:04

Oh what a worry for you. I really hope your daughter goes from strength to strength today Flowers

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