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To find managing gen z a massive headache

624 replies

Managinggenzoclock · 03/11/2022 17:01

I’m a millennial and I manage a team of people. Some of them are gen z. It may be individual personalities but these are the things winding me up.. please excuse this rant. Is it just me? I manage people from late teens to early 60s. The younger group are by far the hardest work.

  • Very interested in career progression and pay (not a bad thing but see below)
  • at the same time not being willing to ever (I’m not talking often) work more hours or support a colleague
  • not willing to recognise that anyone knows more than them, even those with decades more experience
  • resisting hierarchical management structures
  • making lots of mistakes (including repeated over and over) but not have the humility of inexperience/ youth which would make this much less annoying
  • trying to patronisingly ‘educate’ people on contentious issues in inappropriate ways.

I think maybe I’m being too nice.

OP posts:
ThanksAntsThants · 03/11/2022 23:00

I just squeeze into being a millennial, the older end, just an just about, and I’m pretty sure I was a know it all little gobshite. The difference is that we were more robust little gobshites, rather than whiny snowflakey little arseholes who can dish it out but can’t take it.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:01

Calandor · 03/11/2022 22:57

@Cuppasoupmonster and I think you're being manipulative because you don't want to admit you should have compassion to all.

You're angry and resentful about your lot in life. And you're taking it out on others by refusing to see the pros and cons of every generation.

I’m not at all resentful. I have a great professional job, am aiming to pay off my mortgage in the next 5-10 years, and have no hang ups about my ‘lot’ at all. In fact I’m very lucky.

ballroompink · 03/11/2022 23:02

Livelovebehappy · 03/11/2022 23:00

Gen Z are absolutely crap at spelling or grammar. They’ve been taught by teachers who thought it better to focus on content rather than correct their pupils’ spelling mistakes. The job I do involves composing and sending letters to customers, and I despair when I see the really poor grammar and spelling simple words spelt wrong. 99% of which Gen z are guilty of.

We have noticed this at work. No-one is expected to be perfect but this is incredibly noticeable with that generation. In cover letters when applying for jobs as well. I know it's not vital for all jobs but when the role actually includes a lot of writing...

Blossomtoes · 03/11/2022 23:02

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 22:56

Mmmmm well maybe not that many decades. It only passed 60% in the 90s. A healthy number of boomer aged women have worked fewer than 20 working years if that.

Have they? Do you have any statistics to support that? Because every boomer woman I know has worked enough years to qualify for a full pension. Hell, some of them have another ten years before they hit retirement age.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:03

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 22:56

Mmmmm well maybe not that many decades. It only passed 60% in the 90s. A healthy number of boomer aged women have worked fewer than 20 working years if that.

Oh and the irony is they’ll be drawing pensions for decades while going on about ‘benefit scroungers’ and ‘young people who don’t work hard’. Lol!

MadelineUsher · 03/11/2022 23:04

Oh and the irony is they’ll be drawing pensions for decades while going on about ‘benefit scroungers’ and ‘young people who don’t work hard’. Lol!

It is ignorant and revolting to "other" people in this way.

Blossomtoes · 03/11/2022 23:05

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:03

Oh and the irony is they’ll be drawing pensions for decades while going on about ‘benefit scroungers’ and ‘young people who don’t work hard’. Lol!

More bollocks and baseless stereotyping. You make yourself look ridiculous with your incessant ageism.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:05

MadelineUsher · 03/11/2022 23:04

Oh and the irony is they’ll be drawing pensions for decades while going on about ‘benefit scroungers’ and ‘young people who don’t work hard’. Lol!

It is ignorant and revolting to "other" people in this way.

I know. Benefits are a pittance and young people are in serious financial shit.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:05

Blossomtoes · 03/11/2022 23:05

More bollocks and baseless stereotyping. You make yourself look ridiculous with your incessant ageism.

And this thread isn’t…?

MichaelAndEagle · 03/11/2022 23:06

ThanksAntsThants · 03/11/2022 23:00

I just squeeze into being a millennial, the older end, just an just about, and I’m pretty sure I was a know it all little gobshite. The difference is that we were more robust little gobshites, rather than whiny snowflakey little arseholes who can dish it out but can’t take it.

I'm an older millennial. My DS is gen z. Do you have kids? Would you really describe them as a whiny snowflakey little arsehole?

If you have kids they must be gen z or the next generation - alpha. They'll be just as bad or worse in the eyes of anyone older.

I do think as many posters have already said, the next generation are always despaired of.
Its just the way of the world.

Calandor · 03/11/2022 23:06

@Cuppasoupmonster www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna740791

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:06

I fail to see why it’s ageism when I comment on boomers but Gen Z are fair game?

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:07

Calandor · 03/11/2022 23:06

That’s from America.

MichaelAndEagle · 03/11/2022 23:07

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:06

I fail to see why it’s ageism when I comment on boomers but Gen Z are fair game?

Because boomers are older and therefore automatically deserving of respect dontchaknow!

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:08

MichaelAndEagle · 03/11/2022 23:07

Because boomers are older and therefore automatically deserving of respect dontchaknow!

😬

There was me thinking this thread was a free for all for those of us who aren’t overly sensitive!

Blossomtoes · 03/11/2022 23:09

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:06

I fail to see why it’s ageism when I comment on boomers but Gen Z are fair game?

You spray your ageism across thread after thread. You have an endless supply of anti boomer bile and untruths that you repeat endlessly to the point of obsession. It’s extremely tiresome.

Reduxrabbit · 03/11/2022 23:09

I’m a boomer ( one of the very last) parenting gen Zs - there’s a big gap as I was brought up by parents who were born in the 1920s and have completely messed up in terms of my expectations around resilience

MadelineUsher · 03/11/2022 23:09

I know. Benefits are a pittance and young people are in serious financial shit.

Why do you assume all old people are rolling in clover? Imagine renting in your 60s, 70, and 80s...

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 03/11/2022 23:11

Oh yes… add in race and you’ve got even more trump cards from Gen Zs.

I was accused of saying something triggering and other words to a young black ex colleague of mine as I’d got her name mixed up with someone else’s when we first started WFH due to covid. She accused me of getting her name mixed up within someone else “because they’re both black women!” But her and her colleagues names were next to each other in the alphabet and I got it wrong in an email and it was a genuine mistake! If she’d have seen my notepad she’d have realised it wasn’t intentional at all as I had loads of work and lots of names to keep a tab on. They were young government workers in the legal field. Didn’t stop her sending me a nasty email or instant message! I did complain about her but was made to feel as though I had upset her not the other way round. Then her colleague and friend decided to buy a house up north with her boyfriend but they were supposed to come into the office once a week to work and she obviously couldn’t do this due to distance (London offices). I brought it up as I was in charge of them. Cue crying and accusations of racism from the young woman.

I’d had enough and left government after that. not just due to that behaviour.

I also worked in a law firm with young black and Asian and Caucasian lawyers and paralegals and went for lunch with them on a regular basis and for drinks after work. At first it was great because they all loved me and thought I was great but one of them used to refer to Jews in a disparaging way, when our colleagues and my boss were Jewish. I pulled her up over it as it was a phrase her father had obviously told her. That could’ve been down to youth though. She and the other staff including a young gay man who performed in drag bars used to feel all that (being gay etc) was fine to talk about and the gay man used to try and fail to take time off sick when he’d been working late in gay bars!

They weren’t all bad though, one young guy there worked really hard for ages but rarely socialised with them and then left suddenly but all above board to live and work in the Far East.

Don’t get me wrong I support gay, race rights etc but there is a time and a place for it and if say you’re a young trans person, you should feel accepted at work but shouldn’t let it take over your work - most people like that are balanced with this though.

MavisChunch29 · 03/11/2022 23:14

Gen Z? Well clearly their maximum age is 25 so surely allowed to get things wrong due to their youth and inexperience?

Employers should train them. If they want experienced 45 year olds then they need to pay the relevant salary. I heard exactly the same comments about X and Y 10/20 years ago.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:18

MadelineUsher · 03/11/2022 23:09

I know. Benefits are a pittance and young people are in serious financial shit.

Why do you assume all old people are rolling in clover? Imagine renting in your 60s, 70, and 80s...

Luckily less than 15% of them do.

SarahDippity · 03/11/2022 23:18

This guy Dr Paul Redmond speaks about managing and understanding a multigenerational team: you might find this interesting:
m.youtube.com/watch?v=hlh7LrdsUHk

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/11/2022 23:19

Blossomtoes · 03/11/2022 23:09

You spray your ageism across thread after thread. You have an endless supply of anti boomer bile and untruths that you repeat endlessly to the point of obsession. It’s extremely tiresome.

All I do is provide statistics that you don’t like. This thread is an open attack on Gen Z. So why is this fine, but posting anything about baby boomers isn’t?

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 03/11/2022 23:21

Snoozer11 · 03/11/2022 22:02

haven’t quite understood the importance of what they are doing. There’s a sense they are rolling their eyeballs when you point out it’s important things are done a certain way

This same idea seems to be popping up throughout this thread. That things have had to change because the youngsters can't handle it. But no one seems to have the insight to question whether it's actually the workplace which has changed instead.

There is so much middle management now. So many different tiers and job titles, with people reporting to so many different colleagues. So many processes and roles and rules which seem to exist only as an excuse to give somebody else a job.

A few years ago, you'd go to work, be part of a team and all report to one manager. You were left to learn the ropes and get on with it.

Now you have online exams sent to you every week by HR, made by people who are being paid a lot of money to literally tell you how you should sit in a chair.

You have sub team leaders, line managers, senior managers, project leads and project managers to report to. Each of these ask for their own reports and development plans, demanding paperwork and email trails in order to prove to auditors that their job exists for a reason.

HR used to be 'Personnel'. It was one desk behind a door. Then it was a corner office with half a dozen desks. Now, they have their own entire floor, and are endlessly sending out emails and making up arbitrary deadlines, "be kind" meetings, organising Pride marches and creating pointless targets to hit.

You have to do everything by the book now. There's no pragmatism or sense of being practical, because one person once came up with an Excel template and decided it had to be used for everything, even when it doesn't fit.

There's constant micromanagement, no one really provides any real training because nobody has the time, or they actually don't really know themselves.

There's a never-ending string of emails, phone calls and teams chats. Pointless meetings held by people who have nothing better to do.

So much bullshit has seeped into working life now and I think the new starters can see it for what it is, whereas others have slowly become accustomed to it, or are a part of it.

I can't stand the finger pointing at generations, and I'm not gen Z. I work with a 24 year old and he seems much younger than his years in the things he talks about, and he doesn't follow the news at all. He's a bit immature but he works hard. But I don't care that he grumbles about having to complete two surveys a month, fill out a frankly ridiculous timesheet or jump through hoops to document every single thing he does.

And the salaries offered to young people are appalling. Starting salary at my place hasn't really increased much in the last 12 years. But rent in the city has increased by 45%.

Agreed with all this.

I worked in NHS admin for a short time and was micromanaged by a woman young enough to be my daughter and when I confronted her about it she said “oh that’s how I was taught to do things!”.

Manekinek0 · 03/11/2022 23:22

MadelineUsher · 03/11/2022 23:09

I know. Benefits are a pittance and young people are in serious financial shit.

Why do you assume all old people are rolling in clover? Imagine renting in your 60s, 70, and 80s...

Probably because houses were more affordable so a higher percentage of baby boomers were able to buy. I dont know any who rent.