Please help me think clearly...
Partner and I were on the phone last night. He was in a hotel near airport as leaving for a Stag Do at 3am. We were on video call and I could tell he kept texting other people and seemed distracted. This upset me as he's about to go away for a week and I would expected he give me his attention while we were on the phone. Anyway I told him I found it rude, that I expected his attention while on the phone. He said he was organizing things for his travel.
I ended up apologising and we both mutually agreed I was overreacting due to hormones ...
The more I think about it the more pissed off I am that actually this is really unreasonable, that he should have apologized...
My last relationship was an abusive one so it's hard to set personal boundaries and be clear. Was I overreacting, or was he in the wrong?