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HPV in monogamous relationship?

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Thefajita · 31/10/2022 12:50

Apologies if this is the wrong place to post, but wasn’t sure where would be best and wanted opinions. DH and I have been together for almost 20 years and to the best of my knowledge both faithful. However a recent smear test shows I have HPV. It’s not something I really know much about, does this mean there’s been cheating or could it have been dormant for this time?

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OnOldOlympus · 31/10/2022 12:56

It can lie dormant for years, so it definitely doesn’t mean one of you has been unfaithful.

There’s some info here if you want to read up about it:
www.jostrust.org.uk/information/hpv/how-do-people-get-hpv

WildOats5678 · 31/10/2022 13:07

HPV can lay dormant for years before it shows. It doesn’t automatically mean your husband has been cheating.

izzy2076 · 31/10/2022 13:07

Hi

I've had the same! 20 year monogamous relationship and HPV letter came last month! Neither of us has been unfaithful. I think all smears are now being screened for it.

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