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Aibu

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Sostressed89 · 23/10/2022 18:27

Bit a strange one , but a little back story , I am new here ,
I am currently under going masses of stress atm. I am with a man have been for some time , I have noticed recently if we watch a film he Google’s the actresses ( not an issue ) but I have notice predominantly he googles the child actresses ie we watch Harry Potter and he google the girl who plays Ron’s sister ….
today we watch narnia and he google the actress Anna ( something or other ) she’s now an adult it then led to him viewing a sex video she had done.

when I asked why he said he just was interested but I don’t know why it niggles at me , he says I am being daft and that it’s just something that caught his eye and Then he saw that and his interest hit him …
I spoke to my friend who thinks I am letting ky overthinking side take over and trying to find a fault where there isn’t.

aibu ??

OP posts:
lentilly · 23/10/2022 18:30

If you're uncomfortable for any reason it's fine to dump him

Keyansier · 23/10/2022 18:31

There are spelling mistakes in this which made it a bit difficult to understand at times.

It would make me feel strange too. Even if it's perfectly innocent it would feel like something was off.

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 23/10/2022 18:33

I do this, predominately with child actors/actresses

it is genuinely just an interest into what they did after that film - adults I recognise from other films but as children grow they obviously look different so I’m intrested in if I recognise them from something else.

Sostressed89 · 23/10/2022 18:36

Sorry about the spelling mistakes ,

I guess I hadn’t thought about it like that , I think it’s because I have only noticed females( not to say he doesn’t search actors out as well just never noticed it )

OP posts:
Thedogscollar · 23/10/2022 18:36

Hell no. I'd be getting rid he watched a child actress in a film which led to him watching a sex video she was in.
He sounds like a bloody weirdo.
Can't understand anybody thinking anything different🤔

vegang · 23/10/2022 18:50

Keyansier · 23/10/2022 18:31

There are spelling mistakes in this which made it a bit difficult to understand at times.

It would make me feel strange too. Even if it's perfectly innocent it would feel like something was off.

I can see one spelling mistake and understood it all perfectly fine

Obki · 23/10/2022 19:11

vegang · 23/10/2022 18:50

I can see one spelling mistake and understood it all perfectly fine

Me too.

What are you on about @Keyansier ?

OP, your instincts are alive and well. Get rid.

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