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Driving Test panicking

20 replies

strawberryblue · 20/10/2022 11:30

Posting in AIBU for traffic

Iv got my driving lesson today and I'm panicking already I suffer from anxiety and I really desperately want to pass! To top it off it's raining like crazy today!

I need some words of advice and some kind words if I do fail which I already think I am going to make a silly mistake 😩😭😭😭

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girlfriend44 · 20/10/2022 11:34

Good luck OP.

caramac04 · 20/10/2022 11:37

Good luck, a few deep breaths and focus

Tiredmumno1 · 20/10/2022 11:38

Do you have any bananas?

I heard they are supposed to help calm your nerves.

I'm sure you'll be fine.

ZombeaArthur · 20/10/2022 11:39

My instructor and I drove for over an hour before my test which helped get the worst of my nerves out of the way before my test. I also used breathing exercises to calm me down. I made a mistake early on and was convinced I’d failed so I decided just to have the best drive I could. Luckily my mistake was only a minor and I passed first time.

Just go out and do the best you can, you wouldn’t be put forward for your test if you weren’t ready. Good luck.

lanthanum · 20/10/2022 11:40

Good luck. It really is horrible driving today. If you're seeing your instructor before the test ask for advice - the rain's so torrential here that most of us are driving down the middle of the road if there's nothing coming, and extremely slowly through flooded roads otherwise - thankfully not many pedestrians out. Hopefully your examiner will be sympathetic to the fact that you're unlikely to have done much driving in the rain this summer.

whatdoidonowffs · 20/10/2022 11:41

Deep breaths take it steady you know how to do it good luck

Aposterhasnoname · 20/10/2022 11:41

Test or lesson? If test, then try and forget it’s the test. If you think you’ve made a mistake, don’t dwell on it, it might not be as bad as you think.

strawberryblue · 20/10/2022 15:58

I failed 😭😭😭😢 one major fault two minors

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HangOnToYourself · 20/10/2022 15:59

Bad luck OP, I failed twice because nerves got the better of me. I hope you can get another slot soon

KangarooKenny · 20/10/2022 16:00

Keep going. It took me 3 goes. No shame in it.

Northernsoullover · 20/10/2022 16:01

Its shit failing but make sure you re-book. I failed four 😔. Ask your GP if you can get some beta blockers for your next test. I wouldn't have passed without them.

SirenSays · 20/10/2022 16:03

Don't get disheartened, first time passes are becoming pretty rare. My friend just went for her test and only one person from her group passed that day.

thelobsterquadrille · 20/10/2022 16:05

I'm so sorry OP.

My driving instructors' advice was to have a banana and two paracetamol beforehand, and to wear my hair in a ponytail so that when you check your mirrors, they see your head move.

strawberryblue · 20/10/2022 16:28

Thank you all for your kind words x I will be rebooking just feel like a real failure (literally!!)

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Floydthebarber · 20/10/2022 16:35

Op that's not a bad fail though! The major I am assuming you won't make the same mistake next time and then you only had 2 minors.

Saladd0dger · 20/10/2022 16:37

I failed last week as well op. My own stupidity. The nerves were horrendous before hand. We will get there x

DeePlume · 20/10/2022 16:44

Keep going!! I passed on my 6th try!

DeePlume · 20/10/2022 16:45

Also agree with pp re the beta blockers! You don't even need to speak to your gp. You can get them from online doctors services.

girlfriend44 · 20/10/2022 16:53

What was your major and did the rain keep off?

Don't tell anyone next time then you won't feel any pressure and they won't know if you failed.

McPie · 20/10/2022 16:58

Banana, paracetamol, Kalms and rescue remedy got me through my test in 2020! Good luck when you try again🍀

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