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To wonder why people don't know the difference between loose and lose

131 replies

Bbq1 · 19/10/2022 17:34

Why is it so many people do not know that "loose' is a totally different word to" lose' with entirely different meanings? There's at least one thread daily using the word incorrectly. For example, "I am going to loose money"... The other one is "reins' and 'reigns'. A poster will say something along the lines of," My toddler wears reigns'. Is it really that difficult to know especially when it comes to loose and lose?

OP posts:
KimberleyClark · 20/10/2022 06:18

Defiantly and definitely also seem to get confused a lot. And flaunting and flouting.

ahunf · 20/10/2022 06:22

I always spell clever as cleaver. I know it's a different word. I just can't help it.

I made a post recently and losing was in the title. I kept assuming it was wrong.

HRTQueen · 20/10/2022 06:35

I make lots of mistakes when posting on here most of my postings are insignificant ramblings

I always double check emails I send. I find grammar, structure of sentences and spelling challenging as I guess many others do

Can’t quite understand why it’s so annoying but it is to many of here

Muchtoomuchtodo · 20/10/2022 07:20

Autocorrect has a lot to answer for with some of the common spelling errors.

DozyFox · 20/10/2022 07:28

I write all manner of tack on online forums and text messages and make spelling and grammar mistakes that I wouldn't ever make in my work or academic life. No idea why. My brain just seems to do things differently when I'm just typing on a phone.

Also, I'm sure that the obvious answer is that some people just don't know the difference. Oh well!

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:06

God knows. I find it infuriating. I think it’s way worse than the their / they / they’re confusion.

neverendinglauaundry · 20/10/2022 09:21

I'm sorry I infuriate you @EL8888 it's unintentional.

TugboatAnnie · 20/10/2022 09:23

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:06

God knows. I find it infuriating. I think it’s way worse than the their / they / they’re confusion.

I know, so infuriating! Some people can't even get their confusion right.

havingabubble · 20/10/2022 09:27

I've noticed this with people often spelling quiet as quite.

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:41

neverendinglauaundry · 20/10/2022 09:21

I'm sorry I infuriate you @EL8888 it's unintentional.

Still infuriating. They don’t mean the same thing!

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:42

TugboatAnnie · 20/10/2022 09:23

I know, so infuriating! Some people can't even get their confusion right.

Did charity I’m using confusion to be polite

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:43

Did charity = for clarity

coodawoodashooda · 20/10/2022 09:44

ilovesooty · 19/10/2022 17:40

Yes, it's difficult for some people. Not everyone has the same confidence in writing.

This.

Leakygutter · 20/10/2022 09:46

Because it doesn't make any sense. I have to think about it everytime and remember it as the one that's wrong being right.

Everything you've ever been taught says "l oo se" is pronounced lose.

But you know that and are being unkind about people you judge as of lesser intelligence.

PAFMO · 20/10/2022 09:47

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:43

Did charity = for clarity

So, another one who can make mistakes themselves (and mistakes that completely impede comprehension at that) and yet not accept them from others.
I'd say not proofreading to the point of coming across as incomprehensible is more infuriating for the reader than any "confusion" between lose and loose.

Discovereads · 20/10/2022 09:48

Mischance · 19/10/2022 18:00

I see lots of errors when I am on line, but I think that as long as we know what is meant then that is all that matters. I have a highly intelligent adult dyslexic DD with an MA and these are the sort of mistakes that she might make. WE cannot be picking people up on these things all the time.

It does grate (it is not great!!) but I feel inclined to let it all pass me by as long as I know what is meant.

^This. Also I have dyslexia so I’m often the one making mistakes! Not just on spelling but on word order/sentence construction as well.

PAFMO · 20/10/2022 09:49

Leakygutter · 20/10/2022 09:46

Because it doesn't make any sense. I have to think about it everytime and remember it as the one that's wrong being right.

Everything you've ever been taught says "l oo se" is pronounced lose.

But you know that and are being unkind about people you judge as of lesser intelligence.

They always are on these threads. It's fun to highlight their own, arguably more serious, and yet elementary, mistakes back at them though. (Someone will probably come along and say "but I'd want to know if I made such silly mistakes" so it's nice to oblige!)

Oysterbabe · 20/10/2022 09:53

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 09:42

Did charity I’m using confusion to be polite

Oh the irony 😂

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 10:08

Oysterbabe · 20/10/2022 09:53

Oh the irony 😂

It’s auto correct. Rather than sprinkling extra o’s or omitting them

Due to the title and content of the thread, then it’s obvious people will rock up to say “yeah, we don’t understand why people don’t seem to know the difference”. Rather than turning up to defend your confusion, then why not learn the difference? OP
has no need to post and no need for you to defend using the word

StBernie · 20/10/2022 10:08

More often than not I find people spell ‘bear’ wrong and write ‘bare with me/I can’t bare it’. I think they think of bear as in the animal, so go for bare instead, which I can sort of understand. It’s almost daily though.

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 10:09

PAFMO · 20/10/2022 09:47

So, another one who can make mistakes themselves (and mistakes that completely impede comprehension at that) and yet not accept them from others.
I'd say not proofreading to the point of coming across as incomprehensible is more infuriating for the reader than any "confusion" between lose and loose.

It’s autocorrect. Rather than a o surplus or deficit

PAFMO · 20/10/2022 10:19

EL8888 · 20/10/2022 10:09

It’s autocorrect. Rather than a o surplus or deficit

"Rather than a o surplus or deficit"

an

HTH

Was that autocorrect too?

lunar1 · 20/10/2022 10:21

It's natural to wonder things, I often wonder why people are nitpicky cunts about others imperfections.

Mountainhike · 20/10/2022 10:31

So are only people who have perfect grammar and spelling welcome on Mumsnet now?

dingbat56 · 20/10/2022 10:55

It’s one I mix up and have to think hard about , I also mix up j and g and p and b .. I’m degree educated and have a post grad diploma ! I wish I didn’t do it but it is what it is and it’s done me no real harm