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To think I've done nothing wrong by making money on a charity

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Thealarmhasgoneoffagain · 18/10/2022 16:11

I bought a dress for £60 in a charity shop. I didn't think many people would recognise the brand as it's locally made but it would have cost about £300 I think and would probably be a ooak. I'm asuming the charity shop knew this though because of the high price.

I bought the dress for me but it doesn't fit. I didn't want to get a refund from a charity shop but at that price I can't redonate it either. So I put it on my local FB page askimg for offers. I said it was from the charity shop but I didn't put how much I paid. If anyone asked I would have told them.

Someone offered me £100 and I accepted. They collected it and messaged me afterwards to say how happy they were.

Before I could remove the post someone commented that they worked in the shop and it cost £50. Now I'm getting lots of abuse about being greedy and ripping off the charity. The lady who bought it has put angry faces on it. I also have a couple of things on there for free and people have made nasty comments on those. I've removed all my posts now.

I don't feel bad about making money on the dress as that was never my intention. £60 was much, much more than I would normally spend in a charity shop and tbh I don't want to donate the £40. It was a proper charity shop, not one run by little old ladies who price everything at 50p because they don't know any better.

The lady who bought it, offered £100 and never asked how much I paid and was happy until she found out I paid less. I do feel bad that she won't enjoy the dress though as it's a beautiful dress.

AIBU for keeping the £40?

OP posts:
ELLAMAR00 · 23/10/2022 13:44

The charity shop should not of called you out they got there money and the lady you sold it too got a bargain if originally £300. I would complain to the shop they had no right to do that.

Jaffacats · 23/10/2022 14:23

You’ve done nothing wrong. The charity shop was given the dress for free to sell. Their price point reflected the quality and it made £60 for the charity. Even if you’d bought it with the intention of making a profit (which you didn’t) the dress belonged to you and you were free to sell it on or keep it.

reigatecastle · 23/10/2022 15:52

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 18/10/2022 17:00

Why didn't't you try the dress on before you bought it?

You could at least give the profit back to the charity. So you don't lose money and they get a bit more.

A lot of shops still haven't reopened changing rooms post-covid. Or they never had them in the first place, not all charity shops do.

Anele22 · 24/10/2022 13:45

cosmiccosmos · 18/10/2022 16:34

I know people do this OP but it's not something I would do or I would give the money I made to the charity.

Put it this way, it sets a lot about you as a person, and nit in a good way.

And your comment says a lot about you as a person too, and not in a good way!

ChateauMargaux · 10/12/2022 09:44

Thealarmhasgoneoffagain · 20/10/2022 09:17

@Duckytee and @Miffedandold I've reread my posts and can see why you called me out for being agest. I'm sorry. That was never my intention, I was clumsy with my words.

What I meant was...

The charity shop is a big chain so has the resources to gather knowledge, unlike a small independent charity shop which relies volunteers (whatever their age!) having the time and inclination to identify what can be sold for more.

There is a chain of charity shops in my region who are run by "little old ladies" and they are ruthless with amazing business accumin. They realised people were shopping for vintage stuff so opened a shop specifically to sell that type of donation. Similarly they have a shop specifically for children's wear and have kitted it out with a play area. They also have a designer store which is apparently very swish and an equally luxurious wedding shop where they have a link with a design school who upcycle the older wedding dresses into more modern/desirable items. All have their own branding. I don't shop with that charity much because they've become pretty expensive (I guess to pay for the above!) but their model is clearly working for them.

So yes, I'm sorry for my clumsy wording.

Sounds like a great chain.. would you share where this is and the name?

ecosystem · 02/01/2023 23:09

No need to say you bought it from a charity shop. No bodies business but yours.

Naddd · 03/01/2023 14:04

user1471457751 · 18/10/2022 16:21

Why would you mention you got it from the charity shop and also invite people to ask how much you paid for it? It's like you wanted to cause arguments.

You haven't done anything wrong but people, particularly on fb groups, get uppity about the weirdest things.

She didn't mention it.

Naddd · 03/01/2023 14:06

Just seen she did!

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