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After sex

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RebeccaRose92 · 16/10/2022 11:42

After me and my DP have sex, he rolls over and goes on his phone or goes downstairs and gets something to eat straight away, he doesn’t even cuddle me or ask if I’m okay, AIBU to be upset with this as he is making out I’m getting upset and making comments on with how he is in bed, I feel quite vulnerable after and this is making me feel used. I burst into tears last night as he started talking about a story with his ex straight after we done the deed.

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NeedAHoliday2021 · 16/10/2022 11:46

Talk to him and tell him how you would like sex to end?

RebeccaRose92 · 16/10/2022 11:49

@NeedAHoliday2021 he would think I’m making a personal attack on him

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NeedAHoliday2021 · 16/10/2022 11:54

You can word it sensitively. “I love having sex with you but it upsets me that after you switch to your phone or talking about something non romantic. I know we’re different but after sex I’d really like a bit of a cuddle.”
If he reacts badly then you have way more issues in your relationship.

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