Dd is 4, generally quite strong willed these days but can be calm and sweet. Whenever my parents come to stay with us, she’s fine for the first day or so and then pretty awful for the rest of the time 🙈she shouts, is rude, gets upset easily etc. She was like this when Dh’s family came to visit too (although they didn’t stay in our house)
I just find it all so overwhelming and can see my parents think Dd is difficult in her behaviour