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To think this Indian restaurant manager was unreasonable? Or was I?

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StarlightRobbery · 10/10/2022 13:02

Last night I ordered an Indian takeaway as a treat. When it arrived it was mostly ok, although the rice was cold and the sauce in one particular dish tasted slightly sour as if it was off. I didn’t eat that part of the meal.

I tried calling the restaurant three times but they only have a mobile number, no landline and it kept saying busy with beeps- I guess people ordering.

Anyways later on, I got a request/notification on the app to review my food, I gave it 3 stars and the app prompted me to select a few reasons why. I selected rice was cold. I didn’t type anything just clicked it and that was that.

This morning very loud knock on the door, go to the door and a very abrupt man says “is that Starlightrobbery?” And I said yes. And he preceded to tell me that he was the manager of the restaurant and that I’d tried to scam him for a refund. That there was no way that the rice was cold as it’s last bagged and I’m a fraud. That I basically were trying to just get a refund and he was sick of people pulling this sort of scam. I told him I was under no illusion I was even getting a refund and that indeed the rice was cold.

He asked why I didn’t call the restaurant and I said I tried. He then said I should’ve drove down there and I said I couldn’t, because I had small children in bed. He then proceeded again to call me a fraud before saying he was off to two other houses who had request refunds through “Deliveroo”! I didn’t even order from Deliveroo!

I stewed it over and friends I’ve told think it’s quite amusing but I actually think he’s being slightly unreasonable to come to my house and kick off like that. I now feel like leaving a proper review saying this is what he does- but then he might come back. Ugh!

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OneTC · 02/03/2023 10:54

I had a restaurant ring me once and ask if I would definitely leave a 5 star review (the food hadn't actually arrived) and I found that to be a fucking liberty. I would react badly were someone to come to my door and do it.

Member589500 · 06/07/2023 11:58

Reminds me of when my regular place sent one wrong item. It was something with meat in and was for my vegetarian daughter. I called them up and they said they’d send a replacement. A man turned up and said he was the manager and stood at my door digging into the (wrong) food with his hands to inspect it before handing over the correct item. He mumbled something about people lying to get free food.
we order direct from there once a fortnight. Same 6 things for £70. They don’t even need to ask my address!
I agree the apps are getting worse. I go direct now or don’t bother.

CornishGem1975 · 06/07/2023 12:01

I've found Indian restaurants the most defensive and hostile when things go wrong! I've had to strike two regulars off - not for any other reason than how confrontational they've been when things have been wrong (their mistake).

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