Just looking for some advice here;
One of my husband's best friends is getting married in mid-November, he was in Portugal for the stag do last weekend. However, as yet, we have still received no invite. AIBU to think this is incredibly rude?
Apparently several people brought it up on the stag so it seems they just generally haven't bothered sending invitations. The only snips of information we've had a from their stag WhatsApp chat.
Most people (us included) will need to travel and book a hotel for two nights. As there's no accommodation at the place the wedding is (apparently) being held so we'd also have to book taxis, so we need to know what time they want us seated for the ceremony and what time the evening do finishes.
We've also been told it's (again apparently) 'black tie' dress code, which neither of us are familiar with particularly not for a wedding, so we would need to hire a tux for him and a dress for me.
I am reluctant to invest money in dresses, hotel rooms, gifts etc until we know the details for sure, but by then it could be too late to arrange anything.