aibu? I am on maternity leave and overdue and throughout my whole time leading up to my boss has been utterly horrible to me and as I wfh a load of rumours I made the pregnancy up. Which is clearly untrue and she also made some very unpleasant comments about hoping for a miscarriage (I am the main earner so had to stay there for financial security)
I am now being asked every single day by my boss and 2 colleagues whether the baby has come or not. Obviously my boss has my mat b1 form so I don’t see why she is asking me every day what the due date is and if I’ve had her yet?
Aibu to feel a bit attacked and annoyed about being asked this daily
AIBU?
Colleagues and bosses daily texts on maternity leave
Rxr2915 · 07/10/2022 12:38
Am I being unreasonable?
836 votes. Final results.
POLLRaidcandle · 07/10/2022 13:03
Is this the same company where management and HR said someone can only have 8 weeks maternity.
Whatacarryonthisis · 07/10/2022 13:46
Speak to pregnant then screwed definitely
if you don’t return after maternity will you be made to pay it back?
id respond to the next post stating you will not be replying to any further messages whilst on maternity leave and they can email you (set up a separate email) if they have any questions and you will respond when you can. Confirm with pregnant then screwed to confirm what you do need to update them around and do only this
Document everything
Etinoxaurus · 07/10/2022 13:33
The Union comment is useful. It’s not as if union membership is unusual or randomly allocated. With very few exceptions everyone can and should join a Union.
maddiemookins16mum · 07/10/2022 13:19
Because it’s MN, the same with ‘speak to your Union’, like everyone has one!!!
Novum · 07/10/2022 13:02
Why do people assume every employer has an HR department?
Rxr2915 · 07/10/2022 13:45
I’m in the private sector in a micro company- unions generally won’t touch me unfortunately I looked into this before joining them- maybe I should have taken the hint!
Etinoxaurus · 07/10/2022 13:33
The Union comment is useful. It’s not as if union membership is unusual or randomly allocated. With very few exceptions everyone can and should join a Union.
maddiemookins16mum · 07/10/2022 13:19
Because it’s MN, the same with ‘speak to your Union’, like everyone has one!!!
Novum · 07/10/2022 13:02
Why do people assume every employer has an HR department?
Rainraindontgoaway · 07/10/2022 14:39
You can still join a union. Should there be any any disciplinary stuff or grievance meetings you have the legal right for them to accompany you. It is under the ERA.
Rxr2915 · 07/10/2022 13:45
I’m in the private sector in a micro company- unions generally won’t touch me unfortunately I looked into this before joining them- maybe I should have taken the hint!
Etinoxaurus · 07/10/2022 13:33
The Union comment is useful. It’s not as if union membership is unusual or randomly allocated. With very few exceptions everyone can and should join a Union.
maddiemookins16mum · 07/10/2022 13:19
Because it’s MN, the same with ‘speak to your Union’, like everyone has one!!!
Novum · 07/10/2022 13:02
Why do people assume every employer has an HR department?
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