My husband told me that one of his best mates was caught out doing something really bad (during covid) and his wife found out. It involved breaching her trust. He moved out for a while to his parents while his wife was contemplating divorce. My husband told me that his mate told him he couldn't see himself divorcing her as they have 3 kids, he'd have to pay for them, his mum wouldn't want him living at her house long term so he said he's stuck and he had to go back to her. He said he has to behave himself from now on and can't co** up anymore as he'd be screwed. He said she'd (his wife)would be fine if she left him as she has her parents who she's close with and who live in a nice big house, they help out a lot and they'd probably be able to help her with the mortgage. His job is ok but he said as a couple they have more earning potential so he felt stuck and rather than go it alone he saw no way out but to stay with her and be more "hands on" than he had been in the past.
anyway, my point is he really sounds like a twa* and loser and am I right in not wanting my husband to be mates with someone with this sort of mentality?