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thissucks12 · 04/10/2022 07:54

Recently found out my ex has been FT what's app a married lady (who is also married) whilst we were together. Naturally I'm devastated, however I know you don't end up FT someone you just bumped into. This was only a few weeks after we split up. I've got screenshots of this however am in 2 mins whether to message her the screenshot and see if her husband knows. It would make me feel better but I'm not sure in the long run. WWYD?

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Brogues · 04/10/2022 07:55

He’s you ex so it’s got nothing to do with you anymore. Let it go and be glad he’s your ex.

thissucks12 · 04/10/2022 07:57

We were still together when he was messaging her though. It's hard

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thissucks12 · 04/10/2022 07:58

Plus it's of her lying in bed. I honestly don't know what to do. I want to rattle her as much as I've been rattled but am honestly not sure. I know her husband would not be happy understandably

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Angelinflipflops · 04/10/2022 07:59

I would want to know

Snugglemonkey · 04/10/2022 08:41

He is your ex. Concentrate on healing and moving on from him. This woman and her relationship are none of your business.

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