My SIL was over yesterday - she’s a foster carer. I’d been sorting through old photo albums of my kids. She was looking through one and there were pics of my kids in the bath - covered in bubbles , bubble on their heads , noses etc. She said how inappropriate it was and if she’d known me back then she would have reported it as a safeguarding issue . They were innocent pics - no social media back then , only ever going to be viewed by me and the kids dad ffs. She’s not the kids aunt - she’s my current partners sister . I appreciate as a foster carer she may see things differently-but bloody hell