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To be scared

40 replies

Heyheyheyho · 28/09/2022 17:55

Was with the guy I am seeing the other day and we were talking about random things and got onto the conversation of the war. He said ‘it’s very likely nuclear weapons will be used and we will be fucked, you’ll be given a 15 minute warning and have to just bend down and cover your face’ aibu to be scared now?

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parietal · 28/09/2022 17:56

Yes YABU to be scared by what one bloke says.

FionnulaTheCooler · 28/09/2022 17:56

He doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about. "Bend down and cover your face" what good will that do in the event of nuclear attack?

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 28/09/2022 17:57

He's an idiot. Dump him

ICanHideButICantRun · 28/09/2022 17:59

What an idiot he is. He's just trying to scare you and pretend he knows what's going on while you don't. Dump him.

RedHelenB · 28/09/2022 17:59

Heyheyheyho · 28/09/2022 17:55

Was with the guy I am seeing the other day and we were talking about random things and got onto the conversation of the war. He said ‘it’s very likely nuclear weapons will be used and we will be fucked, you’ll be given a 15 minute warning and have to just bend down and cover your face’ aibu to be scared now?

Yes, yabu. Nuclear weapons have been around for all my lif e. You can't be scared by every possible scenario of death.

Unicorn717 · 28/09/2022 18:00

Bending down and covering your face isn't going to do much if a nuclear bomb goes off. What's the point in being scared about a maybe situation? You could say that about anything that might happen.

Grandeur · 28/09/2022 18:01

Bend down and cover your face in a nuclear attack 😂 😂

nancydroo · 28/09/2022 18:04

It would have been scarier if he'd said 'and it's up to us to repopulate the earth'!

RoseslnTheHospital · 28/09/2022 18:04

It's not "very likely" that nuclear weapons will be used, and that they will be targeted at the UK. As the PP has said, nuclear weapons have been around for decades and it's not rational to be constantly afraid of a nuclear attack.

Putin is sabre rattling because of recent set backs in the Ukraine.

Ducksinthebath · 28/09/2022 18:06

Bend down and cover your face is bees, not nukes. Ignore him.

nancydroo · 28/09/2022 18:07

I think it's weird what with all the historical outrage banded about nowadays, that Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bombings ever get a look in. Seeing the devastation there bending down and covering the face wouldn't have helped much.

XenoBitch · 28/09/2022 18:07

He sounds like a dick. He should save that sort of conversation for his mates down the pub, not trying to impress a date.

Greenhillsfaraway · 28/09/2022 18:08

I am not sure Putin is really mad enough to use nuclear weapons , praying it’s all talk . Governments all over the world are taking Putin’s threats seriously though . Unfortunately the war is progressing and things are becoming more dangerous by the day . I am scared too !

theshadeofgreen · 28/09/2022 18:08

Ducksinthebath · 28/09/2022 18:06

Bend down and cover your face is bees, not nukes. Ignore him.

Ha GrinGrinGrin

Fullsomefrenchie · 28/09/2022 18:10

Aye I’d be fucking terrified if I was dating such a twat. Run op run 😂

BakedTattie · 28/09/2022 18:10

whats covering your face going to do?

butterfliedtwo · 28/09/2022 18:12

nancydroo · 28/09/2022 18:07

I think it's weird what with all the historical outrage banded about nowadays, that Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bombings ever get a look in. Seeing the devastation there bending down and covering the face wouldn't have helped much.

This.

Fullsomefrenchie · 28/09/2022 18:12

BakedTattie · 28/09/2022 18:10

whats covering your face going to do?

Or bending over 🤣

Schiehallion · 28/09/2022 18:14

As my late father used to say, in the event of a nuclear attack, bend over and kiss your arse goodbye

RoseslnTheHospital · 28/09/2022 18:15

Lying face down would protect your face to some degree from an explosive blast, if you were far enough away to not be vapourised and survive the initial explosions.

Womencanlift · 28/09/2022 18:15

Yes it may happen. But you could also get knocked down by a bus tomorrow

Covering your face will do nothing in both those scenarios

Being scared of something you cannot control is a waste of energy. Use that saved energy to find a new partner

XenoBitch · 28/09/2022 18:15

BakedTattie · 28/09/2022 18:10

whats covering your face going to do?

Probably so OP doesn't see this guy's smug face mouthing "I told you so"

OP - is nuclear war something that is on your mind anyway? If it is, then it makes sense that you would cling on to this guy's comment and let your mind run away with it. If he has said the opposite, that it definitely wont happen, would you have nodded and carried on with your day without giving it a second thought?
Unless this chap is high up in some relevant military or government thing, then his opinion counts as much as a comment by Joe Public on the Daily Mail page.

Minimalme · 28/09/2022 18:15

He is an idiot. Everyone knows you must hide under the kitchen table. Then you will be absolutely fine. Not a scratch on you.

Hairydogmummy · 28/09/2022 18:16

I'd be more scared I was dating a complete idiot....

Jazzydrops · 28/09/2022 18:18

Unless he gets inside info from the Russian government I wouldn’t worry about what he has said.