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To be utterly broken

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SpudleyLass · 27/09/2022 10:45

I'm sure I've had my phone stolen this morning on the school run. It hasn't been turned into the school and I retraced my steps back home on the off chance that I had indeed dropped it, but I'm certain I had it with me at the school gates. My husband will check the police station at lunch time.

To cut a long story short, my DD4, is ASD Level 3, so has significant needs. The school she is currently attending is a mainstream one and I'm currently locked in battle with the LA to try to get specialist provision as literally all professionals involved with her care agree with us that she should really be in specialist provision. She has also a chromosomal disorder which affects the way she processes information, especially new information. She is predominantly non verbal and has a tendency to bite herself, others or get on all fours and headbutt walls and doors when distressed.

I'm telling you this so as to get a clear picture of our day to day life. Its a stressful one and I was already very much at the point, this morning, of feeling like we never get a ''win''.

We had to wait a few minutes at the gate this morning, surrounded by quite a few people and so this was a catalyst for a meltdown. As this happened, I moved from behind her buggy to the front and tried to give her a drink, stroke her back and generally comfort and distract her for 5 minutes.

My handbag was on an attachment to the buggy and the phone would have been visible but my priority at that point was to my daughter. I was distracted for a minute or two. When I circled back around to check the time, it was gone. I'`ve checked everywhere and it is still missing.

As I was realising this, my duaghter was still in distress and I myself burst into tears.

AIBU to utterly fed up with everything and for thinking my phone was stolen

OP posts:
Blowyourowntrumpet · 27/09/2022 13:29

There's time for someone to hand it in. I found a phone with a credit card in the phone case the other day. I phoned the credit card company immediately, but held onto the phone all day and handed into the police station when I'd finished work. Hope you get it back.

gamerchick · 27/09/2022 13:32

Ring your provider and brick the phone. It'll be useless to whoever has it.

Sorry OP sometimes we just get kicked all over with no break. It sucks.

strugglingwithlife · 27/09/2022 13:36

If it's been stolen then they are just lowlifes! So sorry Op, I had my purse stolen when my baby was in SCBU, some people are just scum! Sending you hugs 💐

CoffeeLover90 · 27/09/2022 13:36

@SpudleyLass I'm so sorry this has happened. Does the school have cctv? Fingers crossed it's been genuinely lost and handed in somewhere.
I've no advice really, just wanted to show some support, you sound like a caring, patient mother and I wish you and your daughter all the best Flowers

Herejustforthisone · 27/09/2022 14:26

If it turns out that someone saw your disabled daughter having a meltdown and took the opportunity to steal your bag, I hope they burn.

SpudleyLass · 27/09/2022 15:25

Thank you all for your kind comments.

Unfortunately, I don't think I can track the phone as I don't think I had enabled any tracking apps or what not.

I'm going to ring my provider and hold out on the hope it will still be handed in - no such luck at the police station

The phone is a Samsung, a couple years old but they'd be lucky to get much for it as its not in great nick and the camera is broken. Its the photos on it that I hadn't backed up elsewhere and the feeling of being taken advantage of that is bothering me than the value of the phone itself.

OP posts:
Musti · 27/09/2022 15:29

Herejustforthisone · 27/09/2022 14:26

If it turns out that someone saw your disabled daughter having a meltdown and took the opportunity to steal your bag, I hope they burn.

This.

you’ve got to be a special kind of scumbag to do this. I hope you get your phone back op and that your pictures are backed up. All my pics seem to be backed up in a fotos account automatically, going back years and across different phones so hopefully yours are too

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