Does this really upset you

[Mybestyear]

I read this today and it really upset me - I can’t put my finger on why exactly given the things men do to harm women physically, but it is just so unspeakably grim that I just cannot fathom the mentality of this man. And apparently his wife went along with him - although she could possibly be a victim herself. And it seems there is nothing he can be charged with. It’s just another thing which makes me just hate (some) men so much. 😟

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11247055/amp/Man-caught-PEEING-grave-ex-wife-divorced-48-years-ago-womans-stunned-children.html

Sorry forgot my AIBU.

YABU - it’s a shitty thing to but YABU to be so upset
YANBU - it’s really disturbing and upsetting

Disgusting man

VILE

Fucking hell. I dread to think what he's like to alive women

He should be done for outraging public decency!!!

Why is the grave in the front garden?!

I admire the son’s restraint, that’s gross.

Thanks for the replies. It is completely vile and has really upset me - it’s like some sort of visual representation of just how much some men hate women.

What an absolutely horrible man, and incredibly fucked up to be doing that after all those years

???

It's in a cemetery, isn't it?

No other words than - VILE.

@Keyansier
My mistake - the first picture looked like the grave was in someone's front garden. It seems the cemetery is very close to a row of houses.

If this guy still hates his exW after all these years he has a serious MH problem.

I'm guessing it's a kink and that's why his partner is involved 🤮

What a cunt. Someone should dump a pile of manure on his doorstep.

@Isaidnoalready I'm guessing it's a kink and that's why his partner is involved 🤮

That did cross my mind.

Let's face it, if he hated her that much he could have saved some money by having her cremated, sprinkled her ashes on his back lawn and 'watered her' when ever he wanted. 😮

The fact that he's doing this in a public place shows there's a degree of exhibitionism at play here. 🤔

He is clearly both a) absolutely nuts and b) vile. But I absolutely do not think that nasty, vindictive grudges that last for decades and are expressed in horrible ways are unique to men. Apart from anything, his current wife is clearly getting some kind of thrill out of watching him do it. Just because she's not the one doing the weeing, that doesn't mean she isn't equally culpable and equally barking mad.

So yes, it's definitely disturbing and I suspect this isn't the only grim thing this pair are getting up to for fun, but I don't think it proves any wider point about misogyny.