@somewhereovertherain
- I am not on benefits but as a family we did receive tax credits for about 3 year's.
They were a life line at that time and although not much it was perfect amount.( It was our weekly food shop).
That was a decade ago and our situation has massively improved.
Both DH and I work full-time.
One DC had a reading age of 14 at 9
And similar spelling and is high achieving.
She is in an excellent school.
The other DC has suspected dyslexia and I've been down a rabbit hole with it.
I have been on my own trying to work out what's been going wrong for her.
I've had no support from the school and I've realised on this journey that other also have been on their own.
This has high lighted to me that thousands of DC like mine who only needed some small things tweaking to get into the curriculum and access it, won't have a me to help
Their own parents may struggle and can't help them.
That's the trap.
Unless you have been in it and thought...ok DC can't read why isn't more been done you don't realise there'is nosystem that kicks into help.
So children like my DC will be left floundering, unable to read ,self esteem crushed etc.
We are not on benefits, we work, we help our own DC
But it's easy to see what's happening out there and how people get stuck.