AIBU to think there is more to this than identifying as Transgender

[DuvetHugger]

A transgender teacher in Ontario is clearly trying to sexualise themselves to classes of teenage boys?

It's disgusting and infuriating. Why is this person allowed to wear those huge fake boobs with nipples on show?

Accuse me of being transphobic, I do not care. This behaviour is filthy and these men are dangerous.

[Allelbowsandtoes]

Exactly 😅

[YouSirNeighMmmm]

@LuckyLil

A fetish is something you only do some of the time behind closed doors. What if this is what he does all day every day? Surely then it's no longer a fetish?

I think it would be more accurate to say that "A fetish is something you only do some of the time behind closed doors, unless you are sex-obsessed and wish to ensure that those around you participate in your fetish whether they consent or not. This, clearly, means that people who display their fetishes publicly are b definition people for whom other people's consent is relatively unimportant."

It is absolutely clear why LGB people need to be "out" - you cannot live a normal life without being able to walk around in public with your partner.

Gay or straight people with fetishes do not need to be "out". No-one wants or needs to know what you do or want to do in your bedroom.

I support people's right to engage in depraved sexual acts in private with consenting adults. I support my own right to engage in sexual acts some on here might say are depraved. I am no prude. Not wishing to participate in a random adults fetish, and not wanting to teach children about fetishes is so far from prudish.

[BaileySharp]

They really ought to be able to tell him to at the very least hide the nipples better. A female teacher could have such large breasts (maybe) but absolutely wouldn't want her nipples on display in front of a bunch of teenagers. He doesn't need to wear a bra because they aren't real breasts so support probably not an issue but the nipples just make it that extra bit inappropriate

[Cornettoninja]

Re: fetishs being private - some fetishs include being exhibitionist and/or ‘living’ as part of every day life.

I don’t think that any fetish is automatically a private thing, although most people would choose that. The word fetish is simply describing something that turns someone on.

[LINABE]

@CampervanKween

Utterly obscene. Shows what a mockery this whole ideology is

^ Agree

[VestaTilley]

Agree, it’s a fetish. It’s autogynephilia- when men get sexually aroused from dressing up as women.

This is worse, as it’s co-opting children. Child abuse. No safeguarding at that school, clearly. He should be sacked.

[nothingcomestonothing]

This is state-sponsored child abuse. The kids have no choice but to be around this person, no matter what he does. This is where closing down debate with accusations of phobia or hatred gets us, a sacred caste who are above safeguarding and have carte blanche to do what they like no matter what the effect on others.

[TheKeatingFive]

This is where closing down debate with accusations of phobia or hatred gets us, a sacred caste who are above safeguarding and have carte blanche to do what they like no matter what the effect on others.

Exactly this

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@BaileySharp

They really ought to be able to tell him to at the very least hide the nipples better. A female teacher could have such large breasts (maybe) but absolutely wouldn't want her nipples on display in front of a bunch of teenagers. He doesn't need to wear a bra because they aren't real breasts so support probably not an issue but the nipples just make it that extra bit inappropriate

Oh my god...sooooo transphobic.... Can't she express herself however she likes.... Who are you to sexualise her breasts?

God, what a pervert. What a creep. Her eyes are up there!!!

She should be able to walk around naked if she wants, and to deny that the s just pure transphobia.

/sarcasm

[TheKeatingFive]

A female teacher could have such large breasts (maybe)

No. They couldn't.

[RudsyFarmer]

I think we can agree that there is professional
attire in most jobs and if you fail to adhere to those standards then your senior will likely ask you to step in line with the rules.

My understanding is the laws of the state are overriding those usual standards and whilst I doubt people are happy, there’s literally nothing they can do.

[Whatwouldscullydo]

This really shouldn't surprise anyone.

The whole point is to shock and create a boundary that enables victimhood status to be obtained at being told NO.

The more we accept the worse it will get until someone says no. What will it take, thats what I want to know..

[SammyScrounge]

@DingDongDenny

A fetish is something you only do some of the time behind closed doors. What if this is what he does all day every day? Surely then it's no longer a fetish?

I wish that were the case, but for some men part of the their fetish is to be affirmed as a woman, which can only happen in public. As someone said already he is using the children as props to his fantasy

I will clarify that I am not suggesting this typical for all transwomen and I'm sure a lot of them object to having their identity hijacked

Such a pity that they don't speak up about their objections then.

[LoisLane66]

I have no truck with nonsense of this sort. TG I don't live there
If a true born female teacher were to turn up to teach looking like that here by in the UK, I have no doubt that there would be a tsunami of criticism from, at the very least, other staff and parents of the students.