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That bank cards should fit our names on per our preference

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RainbowTash · 21/09/2022 13:47

Just set up bank accounts for the children. They have a double-barrelled surname (but no hyphen).
The cards have just arrived, but the bank has chosen to format the names on the cards as first name, initial of first part of surname, last part of surname.
I can’t stand the surname being chopped up like this; it’s not their name. I’ve asked for new cards with First name initial, then full surname, but bank computer says no.

The names aren’t crazy long, but fitting first name plus both parts of the surname exceeds the allocation of letters the bank allows on the card. I know people with longer surnames than we have.

e.g. name is Amy Smith Jones
Bank card reads Amy S Jones
We want them to read A Smith Jones

AIBU that I think the bank should print the cards with the names on correctly?

YABU - it doesn’t matter
YANBU - yes, banks should be more flexible/accommodating.

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RainbowTash · 26/09/2022 00:44

Pixiedust1234 · 23/09/2022 16:21

She likes and wants spaces in her name but they won't let her. Their name is spelt without spaces so she's giving them plenty.

I kind of like the "up yours" it conveys even if op didn't mean it that way 😅

😂😅🤩 I didn’t, but I love your thinking!!!

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RainbowTash · 26/09/2022 00:45

Abitofalark · 23/09/2022 16:32

Some obscure IT person or department decreed that people must have three letters in their first name. Why? It's totally arbitrary and dictatorial. Anyone could have a single letter name. Madame X comes to mind. And the famous Secretary General of the United Nations whose name was U Thant. That was before computers took charge of us. They have no authority to dictate people's names. This is the presumption of some clerk or programmer in companies who are supposed to be providing a service to customers. All they know is systems and technical language.

Exactly. And though the three letter thing isn’t an issue for me personally, I really do wish there was flexibility for all names.

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ArmWrestlingWithChasNDave · 26/09/2022 00:47

Meh, one of the many reasons not to saddle kids with double barrelled names.

RainbowTash · 26/09/2022 00:47

gogohmm · 23/09/2022 18:08

Out of interest having been on this thread yesterday I went into my system today to see if I can override it - I can't. I can enter a double barrelled surname up to 14 characters which includes the hyphen, but not a space. As this is for marriage certificates it's rather concerning. This problem hasn't arisen since getting the new software but thank you op for highlighting it, I have put a ticket into the tech team!

Ooh, that’s marvellous. Thank you for doing that! I love to think that my issue here may have a positive effect for someone somewhere.

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RainbowTash · 26/09/2022 00:52

BeyondApproach · 23/09/2022 20:11

I think it's useful for children or teens to have debit cards. Mine had 'Go Henry' (don't know whether it's still about) but I was wallowing in credit card debt so my friend told me to do a budget, set up an account with Revolut and transfer my weekly spending money onto that account/card. It was fucking amazing (and soul destroying) to discover how very little money I have to spend ever week 😔

GoHenry is still about, but it’s £3 per kid, per month. I’m on a tight budget and even if I weren’t, I begrudge paying £6 a month to a bank, especially when I’m only talking probably £15 a month per kid. For £3 to be swallowed up in card fees, well, I’d rather just give that to my kids. I had to set up my own R e v o l u t account too, which actually is handy as I only had one bank card prior, so a spare is always sensible. I’m still considering setting up another account for my children, if I can find a free one, that can guarantee my children have their names on their cards correctly.

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RainbowTash · 26/09/2022 00:54

ArmWrestlingWithChasNDave · 26/09/2022 00:47

Meh, one of the many reasons not to saddle kids with double barrelled names.

Perhaps. But loads of people have double barrelled names, or names that don’t conform to the unnecessary ridiculous rigid rules, and why does it need to be that way?

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