Suspected ghosting after second date

[Soannoyingp]

Met guy On dating app

I was asked on a second date with a guy and he suggested going to his flat to cook - he also gave option of wandering/wine. I choose the option of drinks and food outside his flat

He did try to see if I ‘wanted to see his flat’ at the end of the evening I said I did not want to rush anything and had a nice evening and got Uber home

Obviously his communication style has done a 180 and I suspect I will be ghosted by the end of this weekend

I suspect if I had stayed at his last night the same outcome would have happened
its so annoying

Lucky escape if that's the case.

There's so many men like this and it's so frustrating.

If they were just honest it would save everyone's time wouldn't it! You could have been on a date with someone worth your time!

At least I am so expierenced with it I know how it goes with these guys
Ill give him to end of day to reply but if nothing block and delete

thank god I never went to his to ‘cook’ 😂

He didnt ghost but as predicted he has sent a ‘dont feel a connection text’. Thank god I never went to his flat as it was clear he felt a connection when he wanted me over last night and was future faking. He asked me to go for a coffee yesterday and a bike ride next week when we were together before I left - I assume to create false intimacy to get me back to flat.

would any of you reply to the message any thing or just block and delete?

I'd just block and delete. Don't waste any more time or headspace on him.

No reply just forget about him .

That wasn’t the script last night when you were so keen to get me back to your flat. Thank fuck I declined. Considered yourself ‘disconnected’.

Then block.

Asking me to meet him for coffee today - and a bike ride. Kissing me by the river. God its so frustrating!

Are you OP?