Something was nagging at me to look through it so I did. Found him on a sex chat site for older woman. He said he wanted some fun, when I asked him about this he says he doesn't know why he did it. Also found subscriptions to only fans.
We've moved passed it now as it was a few weeks ago and I forgave him and believed that we had things going on so he did it as an "escape". But I still think about it often and wonder if he's still doing it. Catch his bank card out sometimes and wonder if he's still subscribing to only fans, which I don't mind really I get some blokes do that but it's the sex chat site that bothers me. Am I being too soft? Or am I being unreasonable