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Is the UK suffering from mass hysteria?

458 replies

User135644 · 16/09/2022 19:19

The Queen's passing is sad and seismic and the funeral will be a special occasion.

However, people genuinely seem to have gone mad.

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PolarPolly27 · 16/09/2022 20:10

No. I don't think you understand the meaning of 'mass hysteria'.

BogRollBOGOF · 16/09/2022 20:11

It's pretty calm with little hysteria. Less hysterical than the shock reaction of Diana's death.

I think a lot of it is due to a repressed sense of British patriotism that only seems to be freely expressed during half-decent sporting prowess and royal occasions. We don't get an annual release such as 17th March, 4th July, 14th July, so we intermittently go for it when an excuse comes up, go full pelt and then shuffle around looking slightly embarassed until the next excuse occurs.

There's something rather charming at an outpouring of patriotic queuing. It's not madness, it's predictable, it's organised. There's wristbands, toilets and back-up queues- this hasn't occured spontaneously, it's been anticipated and plans enacted in days!

The media's obviously highly motivated to the people most enthusuastically paying there respects, but it's also fed by the official pomp and ceremony too. It's a strange combination of tradition and novelty. Most people have a mild interest. The enthused people are a curiosity in their own right.

It's not hysteria though.

user1499128287 · 16/09/2022 20:13

ThisUserNameIsAvailableOk · 16/09/2022 19:23

No, just going through the motions that Brits usually do when a monarch dies

Not all Brits! Many of us are actually rather bemused by some of the antics of fellow Brits.

ScreamingInfidelities · 16/09/2022 20:14

Butchyrestingface · 16/09/2022 19:22

I'm not hysterical Scottish.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

WonderingWanda · 16/09/2022 20:16

Hbh17 · 16/09/2022 19:23

No. For those of us who remember the death of Diana, Princess of Wales, that was a much more volatile time which (arguably) could have been described as "mass hysteria".
The current sadness for The Queen is far more calm and measured.

I agree with this, there was hysteria surrounding Diana even before she died. She couldn't move without the media covering it. I think that combined with the shocking and unexpected nature of her death, the images of William and Harry walking about with raw grief visible seemed to really grip the nation and it was a collective grief. Now it feels like collective paying of respects but not outright grief for most people. Not because the queen wasn't important but because she was very old and had a long and fulfilling life.

SpudleyLass · 16/09/2022 20:16

I feel the same way whenever a Pope or a celebrity dies.

itsnotdeep · 16/09/2022 20:19

I don't know anyone in Real Life who is any way affected by the queen's death. At all.

Mumsnet posters and the people on the news are just not anywhere in my real life experience.

Toddlerteaplease · 16/09/2022 20:20

Not as hysterical as Diana's death. This is far more dignified.

AngelicaElizaAndPeggy · 16/09/2022 20:23

I can't really remember time before the Queen had died, it feels like this has been going on for ever now. What will happen on Tuesday once it's all over!? I guess it will be time to settle in and get cold and extremely hungry.

Museya15 · 16/09/2022 20:23

What hysteria? You want people to behave and act the same?

Toddlerteaplease · 16/09/2022 20:24

Anonymous1980 · 16/09/2022 20:04

Have you the watched the 70 year old footage of George's lying-in-state? People queued just the same, overnight, and in snow! As humans we have a need to feel part of something. It's really not that deep. And really not that hard to understand.

People have also forgotten the Queen Mothers lying in state in 2002. That was identical!

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/09/2022 20:24

Petronus · 16/09/2022 20:08

Absolutely. This seems sane and proportionate in comparison.

Agreed. Am not seeing mass hysteria. Almost everyone remains calm and dignified unlike a certain section of the public, who was baying for the Queen’s blood after Diana’s death. HMQ was trying to look after and protect the boys and was expected to ‘apologise’ for not looking after the people.

Roussette · 16/09/2022 20:25

I think it's all bonkers. Good on those people who want to queue for 25 hours to see a coffin, let's hope the Queen is in there. Not for me.

However, when BBC is interviewing some man who says his dog is now barking Queen since she died is making me lose the will to live.

sjxoxo · 16/09/2022 20:26

I think people have gone a bit mad yes.
today I saw a house ad on right move, and the second picture was a black & white image of the queen! Some sort of statement from the estate agency??! Who knows. I think it’s a bit bonkers. It is a big moment but can’t see what it’s got to do with a house ad on right move x

Pedallleur · 16/09/2022 20:26

Toddlerteaplease · 16/09/2022 20:20

Not as hysterical as Diana's death. This is far more dignified.

Good or bad she was The Story. Paparazzi were all the rage, she was beautiful and it was like Princess Grace but in the British RF with her marriage failing in full view of the cameras. Her death was shocking. No one believed someone like that would have her life cut short in that way.

TroysMammy · 16/09/2022 20:28

I saw the Queen and Prince Philip up close when they officially opened a new leisure centre many years ago Much more important to see the living than paying respects to a coffin.

if she meant so much to people when she was alive they should have blooming made the effort and told her.

MarshaBradyo · 16/09/2022 20:28

Anonymous1980 · 16/09/2022 20:04

Have you the watched the 70 year old footage of George's lying-in-state? People queued just the same, overnight, and in snow! As humans we have a need to feel part of something. It's really not that deep. And really not that hard to understand.

It’s not that different to then

Plus we are not all the same, people react differently and I’d prefer just letting people do that rather than having to see people do the same

FacebookPhotos · 16/09/2022 20:29

People who care about different things than you do are not hysterical, mad or suffering from psychosis. I can't understand the fierce loyalty some show to the football team they support, but life would be dull if we all thought the same.

The media are annoying but a change of monarch is a big deal constitutionally. Who is invited to the funeral is important diplomatically. The death and funeral are important to lots of people so there's bound to be a lot of coverage.

One thing that is lovely, though, is how many people have felt comfortable talking of their own grief over the past week. Particularly those who lost parents or grandparents of an advanced age. It sometimes feels as though society doesn't give much grace to them because the death was expected. But this has opened up the conversations and that's good imo.

I'm indifferent to the bank holiday. I want to be in work (I teach all of my exam classes on a Monday) but equally I do want to watch the funeral.

theworldhas · 16/09/2022 20:30

Yes it’s insane. As others have pointed out, if you go on the BBC website, UK news, and about 45 out of 50 articles on the first page are about the Queen, a 96 year old who died more than a week ago.

Nothing else going on at home or abroad that might be of import to 65 million people facing a cost of living crisis/energy crisis/housing crisis etc apparently. What a joke.

cyclamenqueen · 16/09/2022 20:30

I don’t think it’s hysteria in the same way as when Diana died, I doubt people will be wailing and screaming as the coffin passes and throwing flowers at the cars . I remember people sobbing in the street , all very bizarre .

I think the mass mourning is a little contagious and unnerving but I think people are generally behaving quietly and respectfully. The BBC however has lost the plot .

moisttoilettissue · 16/09/2022 20:33

I'm watching the live queue. Don't know why but it's strangely riveting. They just muted it as a kid was screeching and having a tantrum. Now that I do find utterly bizarre, personally I'd put my child's comfort ahead of queuing in the cold for 20+ hours just so I could feel part of something.

CaramelTwirl · 16/09/2022 20:33

I doubt many people queuing for hours gave a fuck about Queenie when she was alive. It's all a bit look at me being respectful.

CallMeLinda · 16/09/2022 20:34

Some people have gone batshit, I think the majority are not too bothered.

ancientgran · 16/09/2022 20:35

wonkylegs · 16/09/2022 19:25

There is some insanity however I'm not sure it's as widespread as the media would have us believe.

Yes I was trying to think of anyone I know who wants to travel to London and queue to walk past a coffin but I can't come up with any. I know people who will watch the actual funeral but they are sick of how much coverage is on TV at the moment. I'm watching alot of netflix but I'm missing the news which I can only watch for a few minutes, I find the interviewing the people in the queue a bit cringe.

jewishmum · 16/09/2022 20:35

GreenLunchBox · 16/09/2022 19:59

A woman was being interviewed and the reporter asked "how many times have you been round?", like it's a ride at Alton Towers.

The woman replied "7" 🤔

😂