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Has anyone else been unable to decide about taking MAP?

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Fallon12 · 16/09/2022 09:51

Sorry posting for traffic

The window to take the MAP is running out and I just can't decide what to do. Has anyone else been there?

For context, I am happily married with 2 children (just) under 5.
DH would like more. I would like one more, maybe, but my head has been overuling my heart... cost of living, would need another csection following 1st birth causing permanent damage, impact on other children/

I have the MAP, I got it from pharmacy yesterday, but I just can't decide.

No ejaculation, a momentary lapse then we continued with protection, so I think the chance is lower but it is still bang on time for me to ovulate.

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Am I being unreasonable?

4 votes. Final results.

POLL
You are being unreasonable
75%
You are NOT being unreasonable
25%
SavoirFlair · 16/09/2022 09:54

I’m not sure I want to comment or cast any opinion. I don’t think such decisions should be made through polling or casting votes.

Fallon12 · 16/09/2022 10:01

Thanks @SavoirFlair. It's not to make the decision, just wondering if anyone else has been really undecided. I don't want to call up my friends and ask them hence asking on a forum

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RelativePitch · 16/09/2022 10:06

To be honest the MAP works best taken in the first 24hrs. The closer you get to the 72hour mark the less likely it is to work anyway.

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